"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is having a deep voice considered unattractive in high school?

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Or in general? At 17, I'm a good looking kid and around 6'4 185 lbs, and I happen to have a deep voice. I'm not monotonous though; I speak with feeling behind what I say and with enthusiasm.

However, sometimes I think that I mumble and people tend to not hear me when I speak, but I'm working on speaking louder and more clearly.

But is it a turn off for women to have a deep voice?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ace of Flames said:
Quite the opposite actually.

Deep voices make women tremble, if you do it right.

That would be good to know how, care to elaborate? :D
 

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I vaguely remember reading a thread about it, either in the Bible, or maybe the Tips or Archives forums.

Try a search.
 

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Deep voices drive women nuts. At least, in my case.


I remember being selected to read aloud to the class in high school. Whenever I finished off, girls would just exclaim "damn, I love his voice", loud enough for the entire class to hear.


Just work on it. There is a difference between cool deep and monotone deep, and unfortunately sometimes I let the latter characterize my voice.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get real close to them and speak softly, but low. Imagine the vibration in your chest making their chest vibrate too, envelope them in the power of your voice. Then put an arm around their shoulders, or their waist, and keep talking. It barely matters what you say, your voice can hypnotize them, control them. Try it.
 

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I read a thread like this before too. Where was it, where was it hmm......oh yeah! In the high school forum!
 

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No way man the girls like that alot. They think its hot lol. When I was in school I had a buddy named Mike and he had a deep voice and I remember these girls in my classs were all talking about his voice, saying it was hot or something lol.
 

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yep u got it sam, senor finger weapons of mass seduction has a good article in there on voice and everythink else is a good read, so do a search for it man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You guys are all wrong. ****ing idiots.

Nobody likes a James Earl Jones. You might as well go get several estrogen injections if you ever want to compete with the Michael Jacksons of the world.
 

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nakedtwister said:
You guys are all wrong. ****ing idiots.

Nobody likes a James Earl Jones. You might as well go get several estrogen injections if you ever want to compete with the Michael Jacksons of the world.

Are you serious?



You reek of troll.

Loser.

C0cksucker.
 

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nakedtwister said:
You guys are all wrong. ****ing idiots.

Nobody likes a James Earl Jones. You might as well go get several estrogen injections if you ever want to compete with the Michael Jacksons of the world.

nakedtwister said:
Are you serious?



You reek of troll.

Loser.

C0cksucker.
Err..... Ok.
 
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