"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is having a deep voice considered unattractive in high school?

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Or in general? At 17, I'm a good looking kid and around 6'4 185 lbs, and I happen to have a deep voice. I'm not monotonous though; I speak with feeling behind what I say and with enthusiasm.

However, sometimes I think that I mumble and people tend to not hear me when I speak, but I'm working on speaking louder and more clearly.

But is it a turn off for women to have a deep voice?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ace of Flames said:
Quite the opposite actually.

Deep voices make women tremble, if you do it right.

That would be good to know how, care to elaborate? :D
 

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I vaguely remember reading a thread about it, either in the Bible, or maybe the Tips or Archives forums.

Try a search.
 

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Deep voices drive women nuts. At least, in my case.


I remember being selected to read aloud to the class in high school. Whenever I finished off, girls would just exclaim "damn, I love his voice", loud enough for the entire class to hear.


Just work on it. There is a difference between cool deep and monotone deep, and unfortunately sometimes I let the latter characterize my voice.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Get real close to them and speak softly, but low. Imagine the vibration in your chest making their chest vibrate too, envelope them in the power of your voice. Then put an arm around their shoulders, or their waist, and keep talking. It barely matters what you say, your voice can hypnotize them, control them. Try it.
 

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I read a thread like this before too. Where was it, where was it hmm......oh yeah! In the high school forum!
 

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No way man the girls like that alot. They think its hot lol. When I was in school I had a buddy named Mike and he had a deep voice and I remember these girls in my classs were all talking about his voice, saying it was hot or something lol.
 

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yep u got it sam, senor finger weapons of mass seduction has a good article in there on voice and everythink else is a good read, so do a search for it man.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You guys are all wrong. ****ing idiots.

Nobody likes a James Earl Jones. You might as well go get several estrogen injections if you ever want to compete with the Michael Jacksons of the world.
 

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nakedtwister said:
You guys are all wrong. ****ing idiots.

Nobody likes a James Earl Jones. You might as well go get several estrogen injections if you ever want to compete with the Michael Jacksons of the world.

Are you serious?



You reek of troll.

Loser.

C0cksucker.
 

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nakedtwister said:
You guys are all wrong. ****ing idiots.

Nobody likes a James Earl Jones. You might as well go get several estrogen injections if you ever want to compete with the Michael Jacksons of the world.

nakedtwister said:
Are you serious?



You reek of troll.

Loser.

C0cksucker.
Err..... Ok.
 
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