Im thinking about having a child overseas with this girl. Guys like CGA recommend this as the best alternative for a man has who doest want to visit American family court. Does anyone have any experience with this? What are the pros and cons? Ive heard guys do this with girls from Dominican Republic etc...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Is having a child over seas realistic?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
EyeBRollin
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Are you moving there to raise the child?
My opinion- children have to be raised. They need their fathers protection, discipline, wisdom, and guidance. Writing a check is not enough.
We all know statistically how children of single mothers turn out..
My opinion- children have to be raised. They need their fathers protection, discipline, wisdom, and guidance. Writing a check is not enough.
We all know statistically how children of single mothers turn out..
metalwater
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I have done what your asking. Many pro/con about this. If you have more specific questions just ask. The topic is HUGE. you can pm me or just post any.
On your OP, your concern is family court. That's a valid concern and in some locations, you will have far more control and no fear of family court. If you have a daughter, in some locations it is perfectly acceptable to enforce chaperones with teenagers and even 20 years old. If you want to really care and teach/assist the child you will have the right to do so.
I assume you want to go set up a family of your own and take care of it. Much better choice than doing the same in the US.
If you just want to have a child and be remote while the woman takes care of them it is a bad idea. Bad for you, her, and the child. But probably great for some other guy that will be living near her and taking what you give for the child. I actually see this setup ALL the time. It's called something different but essentially is what you're asking if being remote is the plan.
On your OP, your concern is family court. That's a valid concern and in some locations, you will have far more control and no fear of family court. If you have a daughter, in some locations it is perfectly acceptable to enforce chaperones with teenagers and even 20 years old. If you want to really care and teach/assist the child you will have the right to do so.
I assume you want to go set up a family of your own and take care of it. Much better choice than doing the same in the US.
If you just want to have a child and be remote while the woman takes care of them it is a bad idea. Bad for you, her, and the child. But probably great for some other guy that will be living near her and taking what you give for the child. I actually see this setup ALL the time. It's called something different but essentially is what you're asking if being remote is the plan.
Okay thank you so much. I will be private messaging you in the future about this topic. I already went overseas and found the girl. Her family is not opposed to the idea.
No...Turkey
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
EyeBRollin
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Anything you guys are willing to share? Some on the forum would find these ideas helpful.