My ex gf thinks goatee isn't sexy, she prefer guys clean shaven. Mystery also thinks guys should be clean shaven. I have a goatee now and I like it. Not gonna shave it for a girl but wonder if most girls think goatee are sexy or not.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Is Goatee sexy or not?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
darth yoda
Don Juan
If not for a girl do it for Mystery...
No seriously it depends on the man, blanket statements never apply.
No seriously it depends on the man, blanket statements never apply.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
i had that once. I perfer a full beard (1/8 long), or at leas couple of days worth. I'd love to have a big, thick mustche but i have enough trouble looking younger i don't need any more....
this reminds me of something...i use to have spiked hair than i shave my head for awhile.
When my hair grew back into the spikes some girl i was talking to was like....you looked so bad with a shaved head. I was like really? The next day she saw me, my head was shaved again. I did it to let her know that I couldnt give a sh*t what she thinks about it.
I did it because I liked it and plus spikes are played out, everyone has spikes...so if you want a goatee than get one. Dont worry if girls will like it or not. I say get it and keep it for a little while and see the results. If you dont get any dates or anything shave it off.
When my hair grew back into the spikes some girl i was talking to was like....you looked so bad with a shaved head. I was like really? The next day she saw me, my head was shaved again. I did it to let her know that I couldnt give a sh*t what she thinks about it.
I did it because I liked it and plus spikes are played out, everyone has spikes...so if you want a goatee than get one. Dont worry if girls will like it or not. I say get it and keep it for a little while and see the results. If you dont get any dates or anything shave it off.
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I think that like most other things, it's overdone. For a select few it distingushes themselves from others. Sorta like the guys who shave their heads, but really shouldn't.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm bald with a goatee and sideburns connecting all the way down to my beard. Girls seem so like me this way...I think it just has to do with grooming. Mine looks like it was just done, so they see that you take care of yourself
she didnt like what i did at all. I think she said something like "I have never seen such a good looking guy try to be ugly". I laughed at her and really felt great having control over myself and not caring what this cute girl said or thought.
Having a shaved head rocks, i love having it. I usually have my head shave about 6 months out of the year, the other 6 month time its usually spiked once it grows in. It takes about two months to grow to spikes. while it grows in i usually get tape ups which looks pretty cool.
Having a shaved head rocks, i love having it. I usually have my head shave about 6 months out of the year, the other 6 month time its usually spiked once it grows in. It takes about two months to grow to spikes. while it grows in i usually get tape ups which looks pretty cool.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
this is another example of someone that is worried about what women find attractive.
Is a goatee sexy?
well... first are you man enough to have one?
what I mean is are you growing a goatee just to attract women or do you like it because it suits the man that you feel you are?
The one thing I hate to hear is a man asking questions like a b-tch.
"oh do you like me in this dress?"
"do I look fat?"
"do men like blonde hair or brown hair?"
that s-hit is best left for women to worry about.
nothing worse in the world then a man that is worred about looking attractive.
Is a goatee sexy?
well... first are you man enough to have one?
what I mean is are you growing a goatee just to attract women or do you like it because it suits the man that you feel you are?
The one thing I hate to hear is a man asking questions like a b-tch.
"oh do you like me in this dress?"
"do I look fat?"
"do men like blonde hair or brown hair?"
that s-hit is best left for women to worry about.
nothing worse in the world then a man that is worred about looking attractive.
If you read my post carefully, I don't shave my goatee for any girl. It is something that suits my style. But after talking to my ex and she mentioned it, I was a little curious what the general perception are for goatee. I agree with you in some respects when men are obsessive with their looks (metrosexual for example), it is pathetic. But on some reasonable level, guys should try to look good with a style that they like.
The thing about goatees or facial hair in general is a personal preference. Some girls like it, and some girls dont.
As for the major reason why girls dont like it, they complain about it because the hair pokes at them when they kiss.
Well if you can pull it off then good. Facial hair adds age.
As for the major reason why girls dont like it, they complain about it because the hair pokes at them when they kiss.
Well if you can pull it off then good. Facial hair adds age.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
depends on your own face and your own personality.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Ask your masculenity.
i say get one..
I had a fu man chew which was f*cking funny for all of last semester. Girls would say i looked like a 70's pornstar. It was funny to have though, i looked so crazy. I'm sticking with the clean or 5 o clock shadow look for awhile.
I had a fu man chew which was f*cking funny for all of last semester. Girls would say i looked like a 70's pornstar. It was funny to have though, i looked so crazy. I'm sticking with the clean or 5 o clock shadow look for awhile.