My ex gf thinks goatee isn't sexy, she prefer guys clean shaven. Mystery also thinks guys should be clean shaven. I have a goatee now and I like it. Not gonna shave it for a girl but wonder if most girls think goatee are sexy or not.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=88519Originally posted by JC Jerkson
Who cares if girls like it.
If YOU like it then keep it.
what did she say when she saw you with the shaved head the next day?Originally posted by Legend
this reminds me of something...i use to have spiked hair than i shave my head for awhile.
When my hair grew back into the spikes some girl i was talking to was like....you looked so bad with a shaved head. I was like really? The next day she saw me, my head was shaved again. I did it to let her know that I couldnt give a sh*t what she thinks about it.
I did it because I liked it and plus spikes are played out, everyone has spikes...so if you want a goatee than get one. Dont worry if girls will like it or not. I say get it and keep it for a little while and see the results. If you dont get any dates or anything shave it off.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If you read my post carefully, I don't shave my goatee for any girl. It is something that suits my style. But after talking to my ex and she mentioned it, I was a little curious what the general perception are for goatee. I agree with you in some respects when men are obsessive with their looks (metrosexual for example), it is pathetic. But on some reasonable level, guys should try to look good with a style that they like.Originally posted by 00Kevin
this is another example of someone that is worried about what women find attractive.
Is a goatee sexy?
well... first are you man enough to have one?
what I mean is are you growing a goatee just to attract women or do you like it because it suits the man that you feel you are?
The one thing I hate to hear is a man asking questions like a b-tch.
"oh do you like me in this dress?"
"do I look fat?"
"do men like blonde hair or brown hair?"
that s-hit is best left for women to worry about.
nothing worse in the world then a man that is worred about looking attractive.
if you have a goatee, you look like a moron. those things are usually found on guys trying to conceal their second chin.Originally posted by Swoop
My ex gf thinks goatee isn't sexy, she prefer guys clean shaven. Mystery also thinks guys should be clean shaven. I have a goatee now and I like it. Not gonna shave it for a girl but wonder if most girls think goatee are sexy or not.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
that's the first time I heard someone would use goatee to conceal 2nd chin. quite funny actually...Originally posted by ikkenai
if you have a goatee, you look like a moron. those things are usually found on guys trying to conceal their second chin.