"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is Goatee sexy or not?

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My ex gf thinks goatee isn't sexy, she prefer guys clean shaven. Mystery also thinks guys should be clean shaven. I have a goatee now and I like it. Not gonna shave it for a girl but wonder if most girls think goatee are sexy or not.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If not for a girl do it for Mystery...

No seriously it depends on the man, blanket statements never apply.
 

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i had that once. I perfer a full beard (1/8 long), or at leas couple of days worth. I'd love to have a big, thick mustche but i have enough trouble looking younger i don't need any more....
 

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this reminds me of something...i use to have spiked hair than i shave my head for awhile.

When my hair grew back into the spikes some girl i was talking to was like....you looked so bad with a shaved head. I was like really? The next day she saw me, my head was shaved again. I did it to let her know that I couldnt give a sh*t what she thinks about it.

I did it because I liked it and plus spikes are played out, everyone has spikes...so if you want a goatee than get one. Dont worry if girls will like it or not. I say get it and keep it for a little while and see the results. If you dont get any dates or anything shave it off.
 

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I think that like most other things, it's overdone. For a select few it distingushes themselves from others. Sorta like the guys who shave their heads, but really shouldn't.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm bald with a goatee and sideburns connecting all the way down to my beard. Girls seem so like me this way...I think it just has to do with grooming. Mine looks like it was just done, so they see that you take care of yourself
 

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Originally posted by Legend
this reminds me of something...i use to have spiked hair than i shave my head for awhile.

When my hair grew back into the spikes some girl i was talking to was like....you looked so bad with a shaved head. I was like really? The next day she saw me, my head was shaved again. I did it to let her know that I couldnt give a sh*t what she thinks about it.

I did it because I liked it and plus spikes are played out, everyone has spikes...so if you want a goatee than get one. Dont worry if girls will like it or not. I say get it and keep it for a little while and see the results. If you dont get any dates or anything shave it off.
what did she say when she saw you with the shaved head the next day?

as for goatees some guys can pull it off, some guys can't
 

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she didnt like what i did at all. I think she said something like "I have never seen such a good looking guy try to be ugly". I laughed at her and really felt great having control over myself and not caring what this cute girl said or thought.

Having a shaved head rocks, i love having it. I usually have my head shave about 6 months out of the year, the other 6 month time its usually spiked once it grows in. It takes about two months to grow to spikes. while it grows in i usually get tape ups which looks pretty cool.
 

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Good for you Legend.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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this is another example of someone that is worried about what women find attractive.

Is a goatee sexy?

well... first are you man enough to have one?

what I mean is are you growing a goatee just to attract women or do you like it because it suits the man that you feel you are?


The one thing I hate to hear is a man asking questions like a b-tch.

"oh do you like me in this dress?"

"do I look fat?"

"do men like blonde hair or brown hair?"

that s-hit is best left for women to worry about.

nothing worse in the world then a man that is worred about looking attractive.
 

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
this is another example of someone that is worried about what women find attractive.

Is a goatee sexy?

well... first are you man enough to have one?

what I mean is are you growing a goatee just to attract women or do you like it because it suits the man that you feel you are?


The one thing I hate to hear is a man asking questions like a b-tch.

"oh do you like me in this dress?"

"do I look fat?"

"do men like blonde hair or brown hair?"

that s-hit is best left for women to worry about.

nothing worse in the world then a man that is worred about looking attractive.
If you read my post carefully, I don't shave my goatee for any girl. It is something that suits my style. But after talking to my ex and she mentioned it, I was a little curious what the general perception are for goatee. I agree with you in some respects when men are obsessive with their looks (metrosexual for example), it is pathetic. But on some reasonable level, guys should try to look good with a style that they like.
 

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The thing about goatees or facial hair in general is a personal preference. Some girls like it, and some girls dont.

As for the major reason why girls dont like it, they complain about it because the hair pokes at them when they kiss.

Well if you can pull it off then good. Facial hair adds age.
 

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Originally posted by Swoop
My ex gf thinks goatee isn't sexy, she prefer guys clean shaven. Mystery also thinks guys should be clean shaven. I have a goatee now and I like it. Not gonna shave it for a girl but wonder if most girls think goatee are sexy or not.
if you have a goatee, you look like a moron. those things are usually found on guys trying to conceal their second chin.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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fu ikkenai, me am brasil. some girls like goatees, some dont. if you have to ask if a girl digs one on you, you look absolutely retarded with it! people who look right with goatees look weird without em.
 

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Re: Re: Is Goatee sexy or not?

Originally posted by ikkenai
if you have a goatee, you look like a moron. those things are usually found on guys trying to conceal their second chin.
that's the first time I heard someone would use goatee to conceal 2nd chin. quite funny actually...

I disagree, nothing wrong with goatee. Now mustache, that's another story.
 

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i say get one..

I had a fu man chew which was f*cking funny for all of last semester. Girls would say i looked like a 70's pornstar. It was funny to have though, i looked so crazy. I'm sticking with the clean or 5 o clock shadow look for awhile.
 
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