My ex gf thinks goatee isn't sexy, she prefer guys clean shaven. Mystery also thinks guys should be clean shaven. I have a goatee now and I like it. Not gonna shave it for a girl but wonder if most girls think goatee are sexy or not.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=88519Originally posted by JC Jerkson
Who cares if girls like it.
If YOU like it then keep it.
what did she say when she saw you with the shaved head the next day?Originally posted by Legend
this reminds me of something...i use to have spiked hair than i shave my head for awhile.
When my hair grew back into the spikes some girl i was talking to was like....you looked so bad with a shaved head. I was like really? The next day she saw me, my head was shaved again. I did it to let her know that I couldnt give a sh*t what she thinks about it.
I did it because I liked it and plus spikes are played out, everyone has spikes...so if you want a goatee than get one. Dont worry if girls will like it or not. I say get it and keep it for a little while and see the results. If you dont get any dates or anything shave it off.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If you read my post carefully, I don't shave my goatee for any girl. It is something that suits my style. But after talking to my ex and she mentioned it, I was a little curious what the general perception are for goatee. I agree with you in some respects when men are obsessive with their looks (metrosexual for example), it is pathetic. But on some reasonable level, guys should try to look good with a style that they like.Originally posted by 00Kevin
this is another example of someone that is worried about what women find attractive.
Is a goatee sexy?
well... first are you man enough to have one?
what I mean is are you growing a goatee just to attract women or do you like it because it suits the man that you feel you are?
The one thing I hate to hear is a man asking questions like a b-tch.
"oh do you like me in this dress?"
"do I look fat?"
"do men like blonde hair or brown hair?"
that s-hit is best left for women to worry about.
nothing worse in the world then a man that is worred about looking attractive.
if you have a goatee, you look like a moron. those things are usually found on guys trying to conceal their second chin.Originally posted by Swoop
My ex gf thinks goatee isn't sexy, she prefer guys clean shaven. Mystery also thinks guys should be clean shaven. I have a goatee now and I like it. Not gonna shave it for a girl but wonder if most girls think goatee are sexy or not.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
that's the first time I heard someone would use goatee to conceal 2nd chin. quite funny actually...Originally posted by ikkenai
if you have a goatee, you look like a moron. those things are usually found on guys trying to conceal their second chin.