"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is getting back with your X EVER worth it?

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Quick question, with quick answer? Well, something cause you to break up in first place, what to say that that something will not happen again and not cause you to break up again (that is not even mentioning that most people cant get over something that happend in the past)...

Hence, can one say, it would take less energy to find something new, then to fix something old(that potentialy has no gurantee that it will not go through a break up again)? :cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Unless you are just making your ex a **** buddy, no it's not a good idea.
 
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It depends Nath. If you two really had something going and something dumb broke it up, and you KNOW....she really, really, cared for you, give it a go. At least keep her for a fvck pal. But if she's just a regular ex girl.....just keep her as a fvck pal.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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my current gf is in the process of dumping me or some shi+. we broke up over poor communication..

i was always late to everything

she never told me and it bottled up inside her

then she didnt call me and blew me off to party and i was pissed and threatned to punish her by not celebrating her bday, now she thinks im punishing her like a child (but i wanted to take her out and it was just a threat she just called my bluff) and now in her female head i dont trust her and i have control issues...

so shes hating me but im sure we ll work it out its not that big of a deal it just blew the fuk up

it really depends on the situation
 
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