"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is getting back with your X EVER worth it?

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DonJuanByNature

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Quick question, with quick answer? Well, something cause you to break up in first place, what to say that that something will not happen again and not cause you to break up again (that is not even mentioning that most people cant get over something that happend in the past)...

Hence, can one say, it would take less energy to find something new, then to fix something old(that potentialy has no gurantee that it will not go through a break up again)? :cool:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Unless you are just making your ex a **** buddy, no it's not a good idea.
 
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It depends Nath. If you two really had something going and something dumb broke it up, and you KNOW....she really, really, cared for you, give it a go. At least keep her for a fvck pal. But if she's just a regular ex girl.....just keep her as a fvck pal.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my current gf is in the process of dumping me or some shi+. we broke up over poor communication..

i was always late to everything

she never told me and it bottled up inside her

then she didnt call me and blew me off to party and i was pissed and threatned to punish her by not celebrating her bday, now she thinks im punishing her like a child (but i wanted to take her out and it was just a threat she just called my bluff) and now in her female head i dont trust her and i have control issues...

so shes hating me but im sure we ll work it out its not that big of a deal it just blew the fuk up

it really depends on the situation
 
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