"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is getting back with your X EVER worth it?

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DonJuanByNature

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Quick question, with quick answer? Well, something cause you to break up in first place, what to say that that something will not happen again and not cause you to break up again (that is not even mentioning that most people cant get over something that happend in the past)...

Hence, can one say, it would take less energy to find something new, then to fix something old(that potentialy has no gurantee that it will not go through a break up again)? :cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Unless you are just making your ex a **** buddy, no it's not a good idea.
 
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It depends Nath. If you two really had something going and something dumb broke it up, and you KNOW....she really, really, cared for you, give it a go. At least keep her for a fvck pal. But if she's just a regular ex girl.....just keep her as a fvck pal.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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my current gf is in the process of dumping me or some shi+. we broke up over poor communication..

i was always late to everything

she never told me and it bottled up inside her

then she didnt call me and blew me off to party and i was pissed and threatned to punish her by not celebrating her bday, now she thinks im punishing her like a child (but i wanted to take her out and it was just a threat she just called my bluff) and now in her female head i dont trust her and i have control issues...

so shes hating me but im sure we ll work it out its not that big of a deal it just blew the fuk up

it really depends on the situation
 
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