Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The most powerful Military on earth dropping bombs on pretty much a 3rd world country...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No.... a real gigantic pvssy is Putin for gassing little kids...you Russians and @phonyranger (traitor) I might add are brain dead...btw when Trump draws a "red line" he enforces it..unlike Obozs puny liberal azz.Comey is a globalist stooge the investigation is a sham and going nowhere,
Now now now... don't get your panties in a wad. And start calling people's names like a silky teenage girl. Trump launched missiles at an Muslim country... so what? What President since Reagan hasn't?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is Donald Trump an alpha male? Yes.
Not only that but Donald wakes up everyday fighting the deep state and WINS...he also runs circles around the press corps they can't make anything stick...he is to slick for them,everyone gave him a zero chance at winning the election and he did ! I think a "super alpha" title is in order here....
Are you sure you are even in the US ? and not posting from your Nigerian hut ?
Nope... I'm your typical American mutt. Mostly British in decent (I can trace my ancestry back to the Jamestown colony), about 1/4 Ashkenazi (Polish Jewish), my Grandmother survived the Holocaust, with a spattering, Norwegian, Italian, and French. No African descendants. Never been to Nigeria, but I have been to Liberia, Tanzania, Kenya, Egypt, and Somalia.Are you sure you are even in the US ? and not posting from your Nigerian hut ?
That explains everything...My relatives were on the other side of the barb wire....I'm mostly German with some Comanche.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No one on this planet is afraid of Donald Trump. People do say it to his face in person... that's why he's up all night tweeting about it.
Which, is disgusting. I may not support the man, however, he is the President of the United States. The office that he holds deserves respect. That respect, as the President, should be given to him just like with Pres. Obama and the Presidents before him. The amount of disrespect the media and people show a United States President is unheard of.
**** that. He tainted the office of President. His first remarks as President were blatant lies (size of Inauguration vs. Obama). Every other sentence is a lie. Liars get no respect. Can't respect you as a man, let alone the President if you have such a severe aversion to the truth. Trump is a professional bull****ter.
They all lie brother. They're politicians. They are only good at one thing... Covering their a$$es.
Nope, stop deflecting. Trump lies more than everyone.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The office is only as good as the person holding it. Agreement is irrelevant. Trump is a pathological liar. That's not my opinion, it's a fact. A person who lies with regularity is a liar.
Then we agree. All people who old the office are liars. Welcome to the world of politics. Vote R.U.G. for President - 2020.
President Trump is the same man who showed a gross lack of respect of President Obama by becoming the Queen of the Birther movement. If Trump isn't getting enough respect then... well.... you get what you give. Sorry if you think the Obama was a Kenyan or Indonesian you are a moron, living in an alternate reality.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
