"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mackdaddy27

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well i m a newbie starting out, but reading all these threads makes it seem like most of you guys are pretty successful, even some of you have double digit numbers

so i guess , is it really that easy to get a girl or is it only easy for certain people...

in other words....can any average looking average hieght guy become a dj?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mackdaddy27 said:
well i m a newbie starting out, but reading all these threads makes it seem like most of you guys are pretty successful, even some of you have double digit numbers

so i guess , is it really that easy to get a girl or is it only easy for certain people...

in other words....can any average looking average hieght guy become a dj?
Dude, I used to be the biggest geek ever.

Last year, to this exact day, I had no idea how to even BEGIN TO TALK to girls. i was scared ****less.

Today, I still suck. just not as bad. But I'm improving myself.

I learned that the only way to change is to make mistakes and learn from them. The only way to make a mistake is to go out there and try things.

it just takes time and diligence.
 
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