"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mackdaddy27

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well i m a newbie starting out, but reading all these threads makes it seem like most of you guys are pretty successful, even some of you have double digit numbers

so i guess , is it really that easy to get a girl or is it only easy for certain people...

in other words....can any average looking average hieght guy become a dj?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mackdaddy27 said:
well i m a newbie starting out, but reading all these threads makes it seem like most of you guys are pretty successful, even some of you have double digit numbers

so i guess , is it really that easy to get a girl or is it only easy for certain people...

in other words....can any average looking average hieght guy become a dj?
Dude, I used to be the biggest geek ever.

Last year, to this exact day, I had no idea how to even BEGIN TO TALK to girls. i was scared ****less.

Today, I still suck. just not as bad. But I'm improving myself.

I learned that the only way to change is to make mistakes and learn from them. The only way to make a mistake is to go out there and try things.

it just takes time and diligence.
 
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