"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mackdaddy27

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well i m a newbie starting out, but reading all these threads makes it seem like most of you guys are pretty successful, even some of you have double digit numbers

so i guess , is it really that easy to get a girl or is it only easy for certain people...

in other words....can any average looking average hieght guy become a dj?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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mackdaddy27 said:
well i m a newbie starting out, but reading all these threads makes it seem like most of you guys are pretty successful, even some of you have double digit numbers

so i guess , is it really that easy to get a girl or is it only easy for certain people...

in other words....can any average looking average hieght guy become a dj?
Dude, I used to be the biggest geek ever.

Last year, to this exact day, I had no idea how to even BEGIN TO TALK to girls. i was scared ****less.

Today, I still suck. just not as bad. But I'm improving myself.

I learned that the only way to change is to make mistakes and learn from them. The only way to make a mistake is to go out there and try things.

it just takes time and diligence.
 
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