"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mackdaddy27

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well i m a newbie starting out, but reading all these threads makes it seem like most of you guys are pretty successful, even some of you have double digit numbers

so i guess , is it really that easy to get a girl or is it only easy for certain people...

in other words....can any average looking average hieght guy become a dj?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Vice

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mackdaddy27 said:
well i m a newbie starting out, but reading all these threads makes it seem like most of you guys are pretty successful, even some of you have double digit numbers

so i guess , is it really that easy to get a girl or is it only easy for certain people...

in other words....can any average looking average hieght guy become a dj?
Dude, I used to be the biggest geek ever.

Last year, to this exact day, I had no idea how to even BEGIN TO TALK to girls. i was scared ****less.

Today, I still suck. just not as bad. But I'm improving myself.

I learned that the only way to change is to make mistakes and learn from them. The only way to make a mistake is to go out there and try things.

it just takes time and diligence.
 
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