"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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is direct approach as effective as persuasion?

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like by asking the chick, "so, you want to hook up this friday" vs "lets go out this friday, etc etc"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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For me personally, I've always had MUCH more success with direct approaching. When I try anything else I just get blown out of the water...for some reason my personality just works better being super direct, and every good success I've gotten has come from that. Plus you feel like a badass afterwards too :up:
 
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This may get flamed, but I think it generally holds true. The better looking/more attractive you are, the more success you will have with direct approach. Thats what I've found anyway.
 
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L777 said:
This may get flamed, but I think it generally holds true. The better looking/more attractive you are, the more success you will have with direct approach. Thats what I've found anyway.
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What every dude needs is looks and personality, take a look at Robbie Williams, he has the X Factor personality and he is a hunk as well, hot babes drool over him, both are important, only a fool would think otherwise.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PigAdlemPimp said:
What every dude needs is looks and personality, take a look at Robbie Williams, he has the X Factor personality and he is a hunk as well, hot babes drool over him, both are important, only a fool would think otherwise.
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Take a look at Aerosmith. He has women drooling over him, and he's a shriveled, feminine looking freak.

LOOKS DON'T MATTER.

Say it again:

LOOKS DON'T MATTER.

Shout it from the rooftops:

LOOKS DON'T MATTER.
 
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