Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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is direct approach as effective as persuasion?

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like by asking the chick, "so, you want to hook up this friday" vs "lets go out this friday, etc etc"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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For me personally, I've always had MUCH more success with direct approaching. When I try anything else I just get blown out of the water...for some reason my personality just works better being super direct, and every good success I've gotten has come from that. Plus you feel like a badass afterwards too :up:
 
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This may get flamed, but I think it generally holds true. The better looking/more attractive you are, the more success you will have with direct approach. Thats what I've found anyway.
 
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L777 said:
This may get flamed, but I think it generally holds true. The better looking/more attractive you are, the more success you will have with direct approach. Thats what I've found anyway.
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What every dude needs is looks and personality, take a look at Robbie Williams, he has the X Factor personality and he is a hunk as well, hot babes drool over him, both are important, only a fool would think otherwise.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PigAdlemPimp said:
What every dude needs is looks and personality, take a look at Robbie Williams, he has the X Factor personality and he is a hunk as well, hot babes drool over him, both are important, only a fool would think otherwise.
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Take a look at Aerosmith. He has women drooling over him, and he's a shriveled, feminine looking freak.

LOOKS DON'T MATTER.

Say it again:

LOOKS DON'T MATTER.

Shout it from the rooftops:

LOOKS DON'T MATTER.
 
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