"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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is direct approach as effective as persuasion?

verysuave

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like by asking the chick, "so, you want to hook up this friday" vs "lets go out this friday, etc etc"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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For me personally, I've always had MUCH more success with direct approaching. When I try anything else I just get blown out of the water...for some reason my personality just works better being super direct, and every good success I've gotten has come from that. Plus you feel like a badass afterwards too :up:
 

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This may get flamed, but I think it generally holds true. The better looking/more attractive you are, the more success you will have with direct approach. Thats what I've found anyway.
 

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L777 said:
This may get flamed, but I think it generally holds true. The better looking/more attractive you are, the more success you will have with direct approach. Thats what I've found anyway.
What every dude needs is looks and personality, take a look at Robbie Williams, he has the X Factor personality and he is a hunk as well, hot babes drool over him, both are important, only a fool would think otherwise.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PigAdlemPimp said:
What every dude needs is looks and personality, take a look at Robbie Williams, he has the X Factor personality and he is a hunk as well, hot babes drool over him, both are important, only a fool would think otherwise.
Take a look at Aerosmith. He has women drooling over him, and he's a shriveled, feminine looking freak.

LOOKS DON'T MATTER.

Say it again:

LOOKS DON'T MATTER.

Shout it from the rooftops:

LOOKS DON'T MATTER.
 
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