"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is confidence something you need 24/7?

SeymourCake

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I think I'm actually faking it. What about those days where you don't feel comfortable in your skin?

Another thing is...Why do I feel like I'm the cutest dude ever when I look in the mirror in my bathroom, but the opposite when I see my reflection somewhere else?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GetOveIT

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SeymourCake said:
I think I'm actually faking it. What about those days where you don't feel comfortable in your skin?

Another thing is...Why do I feel like I'm the cutest dude ever when I look in the mirror in my bathroom, but the opposite when I see my reflection somewhere else?
Dude up until i was 25 year old i was sure i was an ugly guy with some luck with the oposite gender until i found out most of the girls i know find me good looking.
And the reason i was having an hard time getting girls was the uncanny hability to put any girl in the friendzone, i wasnt showing any interest so they would treat me as a ken doll [ their words, not mine ].

Confidence cant be faked 24/7 but if you truly are confident you will be 24/7.
 

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Have you ever had an off day though? One of those days where you don't feel it? From lack of sleep, lack of energy, etc...

And what do you mean by ken doll?
 

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SeymourCake said:
Have you ever had an off day though? One of those days where you don't feel it? From lack of sleep, lack of energy, etc...

And what do you mean by ken doll?
Yes a bad day is just that, a bad day nothing to bring down my confidence.

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From Urban dictionary:

Ken Doll

1) A meek or mild mannered man; a wuss, acting like you have no balls; no guts; no spine.
2) A poorly hung male remenicent of a Ken doll.
3) A male, overly attactive or primped, superficial, possibly straight, gay, bi or metrosexual. Also remenicent of a Ken Doll.
1) Clay is such a wuss that he never takes any risks or stands up for himself. What a Ken Doll.
Howard Stern admits he's hung like a Ken Doll
3) David Hasslehoff is an over the hill Ken Doll.
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In my contry it means an atractive male that as no genitalia lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are people serious? To be able to maintain your sky high confidence for 24/7, you would need to NEVER have problems in your life.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
Are people serious? To be able to maintain your sky high confidence for 24/7, you would need to NEVER have problems in your life.
I have more problems that i can spare but being confident in me is what make me live the day.
 
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