"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is confidence something you need 24/7?

SeymourCake

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I think I'm actually faking it. What about those days where you don't feel comfortable in your skin?

Another thing is...Why do I feel like I'm the cutest dude ever when I look in the mirror in my bathroom, but the opposite when I see my reflection somewhere else?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SeymourCake said:
I think I'm actually faking it. What about those days where you don't feel comfortable in your skin?

Another thing is...Why do I feel like I'm the cutest dude ever when I look in the mirror in my bathroom, but the opposite when I see my reflection somewhere else?
Dude up until i was 25 year old i was sure i was an ugly guy with some luck with the oposite gender until i found out most of the girls i know find me good looking.
And the reason i was having an hard time getting girls was the uncanny hability to put any girl in the friendzone, i wasnt showing any interest so they would treat me as a ken doll [ their words, not mine ].

Confidence cant be faked 24/7 but if you truly are confident you will be 24/7.
 

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Have you ever had an off day though? One of those days where you don't feel it? From lack of sleep, lack of energy, etc...

And what do you mean by ken doll?
 

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SeymourCake said:
Have you ever had an off day though? One of those days where you don't feel it? From lack of sleep, lack of energy, etc...

And what do you mean by ken doll?
Yes a bad day is just that, a bad day nothing to bring down my confidence.

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From Urban dictionary:

Ken Doll

1) A meek or mild mannered man; a wuss, acting like you have no balls; no guts; no spine.
2) A poorly hung male remenicent of a Ken doll.
3) A male, overly attactive or primped, superficial, possibly straight, gay, bi or metrosexual. Also remenicent of a Ken Doll.
1) Clay is such a wuss that he never takes any risks or stands up for himself. What a Ken Doll.
Howard Stern admits he's hung like a Ken Doll
3) David Hasslehoff is an over the hill Ken Doll.
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In my contry it means an atractive male that as no genitalia lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Are people serious? To be able to maintain your sky high confidence for 24/7, you would need to NEVER have problems in your life.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
Are people serious? To be able to maintain your sky high confidence for 24/7, you would need to NEVER have problems in your life.
I have more problems that i can spare but being confident in me is what make me live the day.
 
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