"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SeymourCake

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I think I'm actually faking it. What about those days where you don't feel comfortable in your skin?

Another thing is...Why do I feel like I'm the cutest dude ever when I look in the mirror in my bathroom, but the opposite when I see my reflection somewhere else?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SeymourCake said:
I think I'm actually faking it. What about those days where you don't feel comfortable in your skin?

Another thing is...Why do I feel like I'm the cutest dude ever when I look in the mirror in my bathroom, but the opposite when I see my reflection somewhere else?
Dude up until i was 25 year old i was sure i was an ugly guy with some luck with the oposite gender until i found out most of the girls i know find me good looking.
And the reason i was having an hard time getting girls was the uncanny hability to put any girl in the friendzone, i wasnt showing any interest so they would treat me as a ken doll [ their words, not mine ].

Confidence cant be faked 24/7 but if you truly are confident you will be 24/7.
 

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Have you ever had an off day though? One of those days where you don't feel it? From lack of sleep, lack of energy, etc...

And what do you mean by ken doll?
 

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SeymourCake said:
Have you ever had an off day though? One of those days where you don't feel it? From lack of sleep, lack of energy, etc...

And what do you mean by ken doll?
Yes a bad day is just that, a bad day nothing to bring down my confidence.

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From Urban dictionary:

Ken Doll

1) A meek or mild mannered man; a wuss, acting like you have no balls; no guts; no spine.
2) A poorly hung male remenicent of a Ken doll.
3) A male, overly attactive or primped, superficial, possibly straight, gay, bi or metrosexual. Also remenicent of a Ken Doll.
1) Clay is such a wuss that he never takes any risks or stands up for himself. What a Ken Doll.
Howard Stern admits he's hung like a Ken Doll
3) David Hasslehoff is an over the hill Ken Doll.
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In my contry it means an atractive male that as no genitalia lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are people serious? To be able to maintain your sky high confidence for 24/7, you would need to NEVER have problems in your life.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
Are people serious? To be able to maintain your sky high confidence for 24/7, you would need to NEVER have problems in your life.
I have more problems that i can spare but being confident in me is what make me live the day.
 
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