Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This is the worst part, she takes gold-digging to a new level. She wants her grad degree paid for but doesn't even want to do it the traditional gold digger way-actually be a GF/wife in exchange. No, she thinks one night with her is sufficient. And why wouldn't she when you have guys offering up to 3.7 million for it. She probably is a bad lover anyway and a cold fish, probably a lesbian.She said: "I get some men who are obviously looking for a girlfriend but I try and make it clear that this is a one-night-only offer.
Well if she was a poor white woman selling herself on the street she would be in the county jail right now too. Black guys should be the last guys to talk about anyone discriminating against black women when most all of them I know date white females.backbreaker said:on a somewhat same scale this is what is wrong with america. it's profiling and discrimination. meaning, if she was a poor black woman selling herself on the street, she would be in the couny jail right now.
becuase she's half ass cute and has a college degree, and posted on line and had a bunch of rich guys 'bid" on her, it's the talk of the town and it's a good story.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ketostix said:Well if she was a poor white woman selling herself on the street she would be in the county jail right now too. Black guys should be the last guys to talk about anyone discriminating against black women when most all of them I know date white females.
It's cool. i was just saying anyone who's poor can face discriminatory treatment, so i agree with you basically. But it does bring up the question of how she could sell her virginity in the first place. I guess she is brokering in Nevada or something?backbreaker said:I was not trying to play on race. I could have said a woman instead of a black woman and the point would have been just the same. that was not my intent.
btw speakeasy, for 1 billion dollars I'd do a guy on CNN in primetime.
It'd probably be the highest rated show ever.backbreaker said:btw speakeasy, for 1 billion dollars I'd do a guy on CNN in primetime.
Women's movement has just taken a few steps back, thanks to her. The message for girls everywhere is: No need to go out to the real world and fight for jobs, all you need is to find a rich sucker and spread your legs.The student who has a degree in Women's Studies insisted she was not demeaning herself.
Damn, where are the parents in all this?! :crackup: I am sure mama and papa are really proud that both kids end up sucking d1ck for a living. I love the part that says that her sister only worked for "3 weeks" as if to say that just because she did it for such a short period of time, that it means she isn't tainted. What the hell are they getting degree for anyway?! the whole purpose of getting a degree is that you won't end up selling your body on the streets out of desperation!!Miss Dylan, from San Diego, California, USA, said she was persuaded to offer herself to the highest bidder after her sister Avia, 23 paid for her own degree after working as a prostitute for three weeks.
Any guy that pays to crack open her clam for 3 million dollars is a "Wierdo" or incredibly rich that he has so much money that he doesn't know what to do with it.She said she had had a lot of attention from a wide range of men, including "weirdos". , "those who get really graphically sexual about what they want to do to me"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Wow,my first post ever in Anything Else. Feels different in here. Oh,yeah,back to the topic. Speakeasy,when I read this part of your reply,I almost threw up. Is sex with a virgin worth 3.7 million? Of course not. I don't understand this. I thought sex for money was illegal.speakeasy said:How many guys would bend over and grab their ankles for another man if he was going to pay you a billion dollars and nobody would find out? I'd bet it would be more than a few.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.