The previous Snapchat post I made kind of made me think of this...as sometimes now social media is a method of providing options outside of giving out a phone number. When she had asked me if I had Snapchat, and I said, "No, but I would much rather have your phone #." Sometimes I wondered if that was too forward...but why afraid of being forward when that shows confidence, yes?
I had sometimes wondered this as there were times I waited too long to ask a woman for her digits. Usually I'd be at a gathering of friends, or house party...would get to know some of the ladies there and if one struck my fancy, I wouldn't ask for her number, but would wait until the next social event as we may see each other again. I hang in a social circle that sometimes people see each other again.
But there are cases, let's say, a plus 1 comes with someone, and they are one-shot deal. You chat with them, they are being friendly, but you'd like to ask for their #. I had cases where some women say, "I don't like to give out my #" to where they've given me their #, but wouldn't return the call.
Or, do you feel them out...and try to figure out if they are wanting to be asked for their number? I have a male friend of mine that prefers the option of seeing the same woman over and over again at scheduled events...kind of a means of getting to know her BEFORE asking her out. That way, you can find out her flaws or what-not before you think, "Wow, good thing I didn't ask for her #."
So there are man dynamics here, but in what situation or if any, would it be too forward to ask for the digits? Is this on case-by-case basis? Depends on the woman?
I had sometimes wondered this as there were times I waited too long to ask a woman for her digits. Usually I'd be at a gathering of friends, or house party...would get to know some of the ladies there and if one struck my fancy, I wouldn't ask for her number, but would wait until the next social event as we may see each other again. I hang in a social circle that sometimes people see each other again.
But there are cases, let's say, a plus 1 comes with someone, and they are one-shot deal. You chat with them, they are being friendly, but you'd like to ask for their #. I had cases where some women say, "I don't like to give out my #" to where they've given me their #, but wouldn't return the call.
Or, do you feel them out...and try to figure out if they are wanting to be asked for their number? I have a male friend of mine that prefers the option of seeing the same woman over and over again at scheduled events...kind of a means of getting to know her BEFORE asking her out. That way, you can find out her flaws or what-not before you think, "Wow, good thing I didn't ask for her #."
So there are man dynamics here, but in what situation or if any, would it be too forward to ask for the digits? Is this on case-by-case basis? Depends on the woman?