Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
alright, thats what i was looking for. I guess I projected the right confident attitude all before this sosuave brainwashing it was just that I had the tendency to go AFC along the lines..GHardy said:Espi is right. There is a big difference between arrogance and confidence. Arrogance will turn a woman off. Arrogance signals to a woman a guy who is in love with himself and is completely self-centered. Women may not want a pushover, but they also don't want an arrogant bastard.
Think of it this way: when you approach a woman you like, you want to project the attitude that you are an attractive and successful guy and you deserve the best in a woman--you want a woman who is as attractive and successful as yourself. Then make her feel like that woman. She will be much more responsive if you build both you and her up as great people, than she will if you just project an "I'm so great," attitude or a "you're so great" attitude.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
deAngelo points out that ****y is NOT Arrogance. Too much ****y will come off as arrogance in a negative way. Too much funny and you fall in the wussy friends zone and lowers your status.Rebound Material said:I was thinking about this for quite a while. I mean, before I discovered this site, I kept myself humble but not a total pushover when I first met chicks and it worked out just fine(I eventually AFC'd late in the game which fcuked me over). Does looks come into play with the need to be arrogant(C and F)?. Im not a bad looking guy. I try to bust the C and F nowadays and I just come off a self-centered a-hole...