"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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is anyone normal?

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Was just giving the new DJ Bible a cursory glance and I thought I'd go through the red-flags section.

I was horrified to realise a lot of that stuff we are advised to avoid i could relate to myself or in people i knew.


I have to admit the screw ups I have known and dated were also the most memorable and exciting. There is a thing to be said about a thin line between genius and insanity.

every now and then i might happen upon those happily married friends of mine who are the most normal, nice and down to earth people you could meet but they are also the most boring and uninteresting people.

So, has anyone come across anyone who is like - normal. No abnormalities or anomalies. is it any fun?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Define "normal"... There's no such thing.
 
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Sociopath guys. Psycho girls. BPD guys and crazy
Cat people.... Yeah... No . I wish.

A lot of the guys I notice these days are like that. What can you do ?
 
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Momma always said normal is as normal does...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm normal, everyone else isn't ;) .
 
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Seemed like a pretty legit list of red flags to me. You must enjoy drama in your life if you equate not having some of those traits as boring.
 
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JoeMarron said:
Seemed like a pretty legit list of red flags to me. You must enjoy drama in your life if you equate not having some of those traits as boring.
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I think the point being made here is: Try finding someone who doesn't have any of those traits.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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