"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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is anyone normal?

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Was just giving the new DJ Bible a cursory glance and I thought I'd go through the red-flags section.

I was horrified to realise a lot of that stuff we are advised to avoid i could relate to myself or in people i knew.


I have to admit the screw ups I have known and dated were also the most memorable and exciting. There is a thing to be said about a thin line between genius and insanity.

every now and then i might happen upon those happily married friends of mine who are the most normal, nice and down to earth people you could meet but they are also the most boring and uninteresting people.

So, has anyone come across anyone who is like - normal. No abnormalities or anomalies. is it any fun?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Define "normal"... There's no such thing.
 
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Sociopath guys. Psycho girls. BPD guys and crazy
Cat people.... Yeah... No . I wish.

A lot of the guys I notice these days are like that. What can you do ?
 
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Momma always said normal is as normal does...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm normal, everyone else isn't ;) .
 
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Seemed like a pretty legit list of red flags to me. You must enjoy drama in your life if you equate not having some of those traits as boring.
 
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JoeMarron said:
Seemed like a pretty legit list of red flags to me. You must enjoy drama in your life if you equate not having some of those traits as boring.
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I think the point being made here is: Try finding someone who doesn't have any of those traits.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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