jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Hey there! Johnny here!
Did you guys got tired of the game at certain point of your life?
There are certain aspects of it that just don’t resonate with everyone.
One of them is the idea that, when talking to a woman, a man should constantly try to figure out what she really means instead of simply listening to what she says, enjoying her presence, and taking her words at face value. So, for those who have learned the language of the game, communication become interpretation.
A woman might say, “nice shoes,” and depending on the context, the situation, and the relationship between the two people, the assumption might be that she actually means, “You look really handsome”
Or she might ask, “Do you still go to the gym?” while going down on your body with her adoring eyes, actually meaning "I really want your body on me".
That is exactly where some people start to feel disconnected. It's not a natural communication, but looking for hidden meanings.
Some people are simply more genuine, open, and literal in the way they communicate.
Their default assumption is that the person they are talking to is being sincere, and that when someone says something, they generally mean what they say. (This is me)
Interestingly, once someone becomes familiar with these concepts, it can also become easier to recognize people who communicate in a similar way, and also, people who are "fake", so that they are communicating with words, but instead they've other intentions (This is when your instict or "gut feelings" make you notice there is something wrong).
Does anyone actually enjoy talking to a woman simply by listening to what she says? Does anyone else prefer taking her words seriously instead of constantly translating them into what she might really mean?
Because there may be men who are simply not wired for that kind of communication.
They may enjoy women, attraction, emotional connection, intimacy, and everything that comes with a relationship, but without wanting every interaction to become a psychological puzzle.
-- In my past experiences with women --
One quality I still have, so I had it even before learning the game, is that when I'm alone with a woman, it only takes me 30 minutes to make her fall in love. And I basically did nothing.
I was natural, sincere, authentic, and I took her words seriously.
I don't know what it is. It might be my look, or just presence.
Then after she fell in love, the games usually begin. She start.
In the early days, when I was unaware of it, I always answered her questions/tests sincerely, or with total indifference.
This is when I start to nice women lose interest in me.
Pheraps I'm considered a "too confident" man, or someone who wouldn't "play with them."
In fact, at least 5 of these women ended up in relationships with "playful" men, but looking at their LTR, you could really say that they are all very toxic. With the others, however, I lost contact, and some cities changed.
This era it's also full of men, those who have just left marriages or LTR's where they learned a lot about women, are building a life simply for themselves, refusing to play games, maybe because they've realized that you can't find a woman you can talk to honestly and truthfully?
And so they've been disappointed by the fact that they put in all their effort only to later realize that One Piece wasn't really what they hoped for. And so these men have decided to stop playing the game.
I'm 30, never married, but from the experiences of the people around me, I can truly understand and grow by learning from them.
Who among you has ever met a woman with whom you could honestly talk and listen to her words, which would have been true, and then, turning off the engine, "read her intentions"?
Did you guys got tired of the game at certain point of your life?
There are certain aspects of it that just don’t resonate with everyone.
One of them is the idea that, when talking to a woman, a man should constantly try to figure out what she really means instead of simply listening to what she says, enjoying her presence, and taking her words at face value. So, for those who have learned the language of the game, communication become interpretation.
A woman might say, “nice shoes,” and depending on the context, the situation, and the relationship between the two people, the assumption might be that she actually means, “You look really handsome”
Or she might ask, “Do you still go to the gym?” while going down on your body with her adoring eyes, actually meaning "I really want your body on me".
That is exactly where some people start to feel disconnected. It's not a natural communication, but looking for hidden meanings.
Some people are simply more genuine, open, and literal in the way they communicate.
Their default assumption is that the person they are talking to is being sincere, and that when someone says something, they generally mean what they say. (This is me)
Interestingly, once someone becomes familiar with these concepts, it can also become easier to recognize people who communicate in a similar way, and also, people who are "fake", so that they are communicating with words, but instead they've other intentions (This is when your instict or "gut feelings" make you notice there is something wrong).
Does anyone actually enjoy talking to a woman simply by listening to what she says? Does anyone else prefer taking her words seriously instead of constantly translating them into what she might really mean?
Because there may be men who are simply not wired for that kind of communication.
They may enjoy women, attraction, emotional connection, intimacy, and everything that comes with a relationship, but without wanting every interaction to become a psychological puzzle.
-- In my past experiences with women --
One quality I still have, so I had it even before learning the game, is that when I'm alone with a woman, it only takes me 30 minutes to make her fall in love. And I basically did nothing.
I was natural, sincere, authentic, and I took her words seriously.
I don't know what it is. It might be my look, or just presence.
Then after she fell in love, the games usually begin. She start.
In the early days, when I was unaware of it, I always answered her questions/tests sincerely, or with total indifference.
This is when I start to nice women lose interest in me.
Pheraps I'm considered a "too confident" man, or someone who wouldn't "play with them."
In fact, at least 5 of these women ended up in relationships with "playful" men, but looking at their LTR, you could really say that they are all very toxic. With the others, however, I lost contact, and some cities changed.
This era it's also full of men, those who have just left marriages or LTR's where they learned a lot about women, are building a life simply for themselves, refusing to play games, maybe because they've realized that you can't find a woman you can talk to honestly and truthfully?
And so they've been disappointed by the fact that they put in all their effort only to later realize that One Piece wasn't really what they hoped for. And so these men have decided to stop playing the game.
I'm 30, never married, but from the experiences of the people around me, I can truly understand and grow by learning from them.
Who among you has ever met a woman with whom you could honestly talk and listen to her words, which would have been true, and then, turning off the engine, "read her intentions"?
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