"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is anybody else here pissed off at women right now?

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You are right. I shouldn't post stuff that brings others down.

I thought of that same thing when I called a few friends to ***** about it.

Everybody has problems. Why do they want to hear about someone elses?

On the other hand, I am kind of glad i posted this because I got a ton of good advice.

Thanks to all.

You know what is really good about your idea is that your mood will affect others. When you are in a great mood people want to be around you.

When you aren't they can tell.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Ricky
Thanks for the brilliant insight Tactic.

Sometimes you just have to express your frustration. I was extremely pissed when I wrote that.
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so was i.
 
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Tactic, that's cool. I think we all go on our ups and downs.

The weird part is reading anybodies post, it is hard to really know what was going through their mind when they wrote it.

I was really thinking irrationally, but usually with women I think irrationally anyways. They kind of trick you into their way of thinking at times.
 
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