"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is anybody else here pissed off at women right now?

Ricky

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You are right. I shouldn't post stuff that brings others down.

I thought of that same thing when I called a few friends to ***** about it.

Everybody has problems. Why do they want to hear about someone elses?

On the other hand, I am kind of glad i posted this because I got a ton of good advice.

Thanks to all.

You know what is really good about your idea is that your mood will affect others. When you are in a great mood people want to be around you.

When you aren't they can tell.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Ricky
Thanks for the brilliant insight Tactic.

Sometimes you just have to express your frustration. I was extremely pissed when I wrote that.
so was i.
 

Ricky

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Tactic, that's cool. I think we all go on our ups and downs.

The weird part is reading anybodies post, it is hard to really know what was going through their mind when they wrote it.

I was really thinking irrationally, but usually with women I think irrationally anyways. They kind of trick you into their way of thinking at times.
 
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