"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is AlexDP my Ex-gf?

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Wow, this is pretty scary.

As many of you know, AlexDP is pretty much my stalker here on SS.

But did you ever wonder why this member is so passionately against me in particular? Could it be that it is my ex-girlfriend?

If you don't believe me, consider that AlexDP has not posted anything except in reply to my posts for weeks if not longer!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1704777
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Link broken...
 
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lol it's possible.
 
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When I saw the name "AlexDP" I was expecting something related to porn.

Disappointed. :(
 
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bigneil said:
Wow, this is pretty scary.

As many of you know, AlexDP is pretty much my stalker here on SS.

But did you ever wonder why this member is so passionately against me in particular? Could it be that it is my ex-girlfriend?

If you don't believe me, consider that AlexDP has not posted anything except in reply to my posts for weeks if not longer!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1704777
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Nah, maybe he just likes you. if you know what i mean lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You might want to check this out, bigneil:

http://lightshouse.org/lights-blog/smear-campaigns-part-1#axzz1sI6D9W6E

One of the most fundamental characteristics of personality disordered people is that they often resort to smear campaigns. I have seen you do it several times. Not just with me either. Personality disordered people are also attracted to other PD's. Which is why you tend to go for strippers and the like. You yearn for their toxic love. You don't acknowledge this, because you are a narcissist and you have got an image to protect. I know it is impossible to ever get through to you, because you are that damaged and quite frankly you are also just plain stupid.

You're a textbook narcissist, mate.

P.S.: How's your mom doing?
 
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Bigneil,

I think that you deserved your problem shown to the world for trying to humiliate Alex; what goes around comes around........

I must say that in many instances of your dialogue you bay Alex into a fight. I think you perhaps ought to quit it, before you reveal more traits of your disorder..............
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AlexDP said:
P.S.: How's your mom doing?
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hard to take much you say seriously after that lol
 
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cablecow15 said:
hard to take much you say seriously after that lol
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That's because you are reading it the wrong way. Personality disorders usually stem from attachment issues. Often with the mom :).
 
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"Knowing that the moralists, the crabbed repressed types who croak about the evils of the seducer, secretly envy their power, they do not concern themselves with other people's opinions. They do not deal in moral judgements - nothing could be less seductive." - Robert Greene
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Looks like BigNeil has himself a little hater in the midst. You know your doing something right when you actually have earned yourself a hater. Gratz!

Haters gonn hate!
 
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AlexDP said:
That's because you are reading it the wrong way. Personality disorders usually stem from attachment issues. Often with the mom :).
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Dear AlexDP,
I laughed out loud when I read "By the way: how's your mom?". It made me remember my old times in kindergarten, about 3 years ago. Too bad, it seems I misinterpreted that. Your fancy two-bit explination confused my brain like never before.

So **** you.

-Groovy
 
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fvck you alex.. Just because.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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