"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Is AlexDP my Ex-gf?

bigneil

bigneil

Banned
Joined
Oct 20, 2006
Messages
8,265
Reaction score
2,644
Location
Texas
Wow, this is pretty scary.

As many of you know, AlexDP is pretty much my stalker here on SS.

But did you ever wonder why this member is so passionately against me in particular? Could it be that it is my ex-girlfriend?

If you don't believe me, consider that AlexDP has not posted anything except in reply to my posts for weeks if not longer!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1704777
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

G

Groovy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 21, 2008
Messages
752
Reaction score
22
Link broken...
 
SamTheHobit

SamTheHobit

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2011
Messages
1,514
Reaction score
95
Location
South Africa
lol it's possible.
 
D

Derp

New Member
Joined
Dec 2, 2011
Messages
9
Reaction score
0
When I saw the name "AlexDP" I was expecting something related to porn.

Disappointed. :(
 
E

ezio

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 10, 2012
Messages
162
Reaction score
8
bigneil said:
Wow, this is pretty scary.

As many of you know, AlexDP is pretty much my stalker here on SS.

But did you ever wonder why this member is so passionately against me in particular? Could it be that it is my ex-girlfriend?

If you don't believe me, consider that AlexDP has not posted anything except in reply to my posts for weeks if not longer!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1704777
Click to expand...
Nah, maybe he just likes you. if you know what i mean lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

A

AlexDP

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 3, 2011
Messages
415
Reaction score
24
You might want to check this out, bigneil:

http://lightshouse.org/lights-blog/smear-campaigns-part-1#axzz1sI6D9W6E

One of the most fundamental characteristics of personality disordered people is that they often resort to smear campaigns. I have seen you do it several times. Not just with me either. Personality disordered people are also attracted to other PD's. Which is why you tend to go for strippers and the like. You yearn for their toxic love. You don't acknowledge this, because you are a narcissist and you have got an image to protect. I know it is impossible to ever get through to you, because you are that damaged and quite frankly you are also just plain stupid.

You're a textbook narcissist, mate.

P.S.: How's your mom doing?
 
T

TonyBaloney

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 9, 2012
Messages
480
Reaction score
20
Bigneil,

I think that you deserved your problem shown to the world for trying to humiliate Alex; what goes around comes around........

I must say that in many instances of your dialogue you bay Alex into a fight. I think you perhaps ought to quit it, before you reveal more traits of your disorder..............
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

C

cablecow15

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 17, 2005
Messages
651
Reaction score
13
Age
36
Location
Tennessee
AlexDP said:
P.S.: How's your mom doing?
Click to expand...
hard to take much you say seriously after that lol
 
A

AlexDP

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 3, 2011
Messages
415
Reaction score
24
cablecow15 said:
hard to take much you say seriously after that lol
Click to expand...
That's because you are reading it the wrong way. Personality disorders usually stem from attachment issues. Often with the mom :).
 
bigneil

bigneil

Banned
Joined
Oct 20, 2006
Messages
8,265
Reaction score
2,644
Location
Texas
"Knowing that the moralists, the crabbed repressed types who croak about the evils of the seducer, secretly envy their power, they do not concern themselves with other people's opinions. They do not deal in moral judgements - nothing could be less seductive." - Robert Greene
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

SgtSplacker

SgtSplacker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 18, 2011
Messages
2,039
Reaction score
504
Looks like BigNeil has himself a little hater in the midst. You know your doing something right when you actually have earned yourself a hater. Gratz!

Haters gonn hate!
 
G

Groovy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 21, 2008
Messages
752
Reaction score
22
AlexDP said:
That's because you are reading it the wrong way. Personality disorders usually stem from attachment issues. Often with the mom :).
Click to expand...
Dear AlexDP,
I laughed out loud when I read "By the way: how's your mom?". It made me remember my old times in kindergarten, about 3 years ago. Too bad, it seems I misinterpreted that. Your fancy two-bit explination confused my brain like never before.

So **** you.

-Groovy
 
SamTheHobit

SamTheHobit

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2011
Messages
1,514
Reaction score
95
Location
South Africa
fvck you alex.. Just because.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top