"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is AdultFriendFinder an effective tool?

Sabu

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Has anyone had any experience with it? Or, is the whole thing a farce?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bile

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well, I actually have...I don't know about it actually, there's so few girls in sweden on AFF that its hard to tell, but it's defiitely not better that any of the free adult dating services in sweden, but then again, maybe there arent so many free Adult dating services in the rest of the world that other people have a choice.
One thing is certaing thou, like any other adult dating service on the internet, it takes patience, and extreme amounts of it, for 3 months I've only gotten a few responses...
 

everywomanshero

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Yes, I've met people off AFF, sort of. They post areas they are going to for swinger clubs. Incidently, I found out where the swinger clubs where this way. As far as getting a lone woman to meet you, I don'tr have any experience with that. I will say all of the women I met from AFF were surprisingly attractive. Slender, attractive faces. Yes, at least most of the ones in the swinger groups are for real.
 

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friendfinder is very discrete, myspace can be as well, but the myspace generation is back to it's attention craving ways. Friendfinder the 1st generation dating site is gered towards singles meeting.

Great site, it's not judged on the quality of your homepage, but on the quality of your writing...

thing that pisses me off is you have to pay for it:p
All I use it for is to scan through pictures, I check who I know by face and tease them about it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There are bona-fide freaks on the site

Yes there are. Something like 3-5% of women are sex addicts. Single males have the hardest time on AFF; it's easiest to meet a woman with a husband who likes to watch. Sometimes that works out. *But* when you deal with freaks, you have to take the good with the bad. I have heard of guys thinking that they are dealing with a horny single woman, but later finding out that she is just bait to get a boyfriend for her boyfriend.:eek:
 

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ethnomethodologist said:
Friendfinder the 1st generation dating site is gered towards singles meeting.

Great site, it's not judged on the quality of your homepage, but on the quality of your writing...

thing that pisses me off is you have to pay for it:p
While it does suck that you have to pay for it, the charge serves as a filter to keep jokers off the site, and also to keep things a little more discrete.
 

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free account, see the picture, call em up in town... I'm a lucky bastard for that. I get to cheat at this seduction game;)

White friends have to go through the usual process though, they even have to pay to send each message?
 

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Now, that I think about it, I'm guessing most of these "sex addicts" have some sort of STD/VD, too.

But did you know AdultFriendFinder is the #22 site in the WORLD?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fraud?

I know it is in the advertising... why are there ads that are blatantly false on the internet, on so called secure websites?
 
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