"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is AdultFriendFinder an effective tool?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
One thing is certaing thou, like any other adult dating service on the internet, it takes patience, and extreme amounts of it, for 3 months I've only gotten a few responses...
everywomanshero
Master Don Juan
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Great site, it's not judged on the quality of your homepage, but on the quality of your writing...
thing that pisses me off is you have to pay for it
All I use it for is to scan through pictures, I check who I know by face and tease them about it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yes there are. Something like 3-5% of women are sex addicts. Single males have the hardest time on AFF; it's easiest to meet a woman with a husband who likes to watch. Sometimes that works out. *But* when you deal with freaks, you have to take the good with the bad. I have heard of guys thinking that they are dealing with a horny single woman, but later finding out that she is just bait to get a boyfriend for her boyfriend.
While it does suck that you have to pay for it, the charge serves as a filter to keep jokers off the site, and also to keep things a little more discrete.ethnomethodologist said:Friendfinder the 1st generation dating site is gered towards singles meeting.
Great site, it's not judged on the quality of your homepage, but on the quality of your writing...
thing that pisses me off is you have to pay for it
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
White friends have to go through the usual process though, they even have to pay to send each message?
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
LOLOL
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Here's a link about the owner:
www.ripoffreport.com/repo...119734.htm
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
I know it is in the advertising... why are there ads that are blatantly false on the internet, on so called secure websites?