"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is AdultFriendFinder an effective tool?

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Has anyone had any experience with it? Or, is the whole thing a farce?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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well, I actually have...I don't know about it actually, there's so few girls in sweden on AFF that its hard to tell, but it's defiitely not better that any of the free adult dating services in sweden, but then again, maybe there arent so many free Adult dating services in the rest of the world that other people have a choice.
One thing is certaing thou, like any other adult dating service on the internet, it takes patience, and extreme amounts of it, for 3 months I've only gotten a few responses...
 
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Yes, I've met people off AFF, sort of. They post areas they are going to for swinger clubs. Incidently, I found out where the swinger clubs where this way. As far as getting a lone woman to meet you, I don'tr have any experience with that. I will say all of the women I met from AFF were surprisingly attractive. Slender, attractive faces. Yes, at least most of the ones in the swinger groups are for real.
 
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friendfinder is very discrete, myspace can be as well, but the myspace generation is back to it's attention craving ways. Friendfinder the 1st generation dating site is gered towards singles meeting.

Great site, it's not judged on the quality of your homepage, but on the quality of your writing...

thing that pisses me off is you have to pay for it:p
All I use it for is to scan through pictures, I check who I know by face and tease them about it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There are bona-fide freaks on the site

Yes there are. Something like 3-5% of women are sex addicts. Single males have the hardest time on AFF; it's easiest to meet a woman with a husband who likes to watch. Sometimes that works out. *But* when you deal with freaks, you have to take the good with the bad. I have heard of guys thinking that they are dealing with a horny single woman, but later finding out that she is just bait to get a boyfriend for her boyfriend.:eek:
 
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ethnomethodologist said:
Friendfinder the 1st generation dating site is gered towards singles meeting.

Great site, it's not judged on the quality of your homepage, but on the quality of your writing...

thing that pisses me off is you have to pay for it:p
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While it does suck that you have to pay for it, the charge serves as a filter to keep jokers off the site, and also to keep things a little more discrete.
 
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free account, see the picture, call em up in town... I'm a lucky bastard for that. I get to cheat at this seduction game;)

White friends have to go through the usual process though, they even have to pay to send each message?
 
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Now, that I think about it, I'm guessing most of these "sex addicts" have some sort of STD/VD, too.

But did you know AdultFriendFinder is the #22 site in the WORLD?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fraud?

I know it is in the advertising... why are there ads that are blatantly false on the internet, on so called secure websites?
 
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