"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is AdultFriendFinder an effective tool?

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Has anyone had any experience with it? Or, is the whole thing a farce?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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well, I actually have...I don't know about it actually, there's so few girls in sweden on AFF that its hard to tell, but it's defiitely not better that any of the free adult dating services in sweden, but then again, maybe there arent so many free Adult dating services in the rest of the world that other people have a choice.
One thing is certaing thou, like any other adult dating service on the internet, it takes patience, and extreme amounts of it, for 3 months I've only gotten a few responses...
 
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Yes, I've met people off AFF, sort of. They post areas they are going to for swinger clubs. Incidently, I found out where the swinger clubs where this way. As far as getting a lone woman to meet you, I don'tr have any experience with that. I will say all of the women I met from AFF were surprisingly attractive. Slender, attractive faces. Yes, at least most of the ones in the swinger groups are for real.
 
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friendfinder is very discrete, myspace can be as well, but the myspace generation is back to it's attention craving ways. Friendfinder the 1st generation dating site is gered towards singles meeting.

Great site, it's not judged on the quality of your homepage, but on the quality of your writing...

thing that pisses me off is you have to pay for it:p
All I use it for is to scan through pictures, I check who I know by face and tease them about it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There are bona-fide freaks on the site

Yes there are. Something like 3-5% of women are sex addicts. Single males have the hardest time on AFF; it's easiest to meet a woman with a husband who likes to watch. Sometimes that works out. *But* when you deal with freaks, you have to take the good with the bad. I have heard of guys thinking that they are dealing with a horny single woman, but later finding out that she is just bait to get a boyfriend for her boyfriend.:eek:
 
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ethnomethodologist said:
Friendfinder the 1st generation dating site is gered towards singles meeting.

Great site, it's not judged on the quality of your homepage, but on the quality of your writing...

thing that pisses me off is you have to pay for it:p
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While it does suck that you have to pay for it, the charge serves as a filter to keep jokers off the site, and also to keep things a little more discrete.
 
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free account, see the picture, call em up in town... I'm a lucky bastard for that. I get to cheat at this seduction game;)

White friends have to go through the usual process though, they even have to pay to send each message?
 
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Now, that I think about it, I'm guessing most of these "sex addicts" have some sort of STD/VD, too.

But did you know AdultFriendFinder is the #22 site in the WORLD?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fraud?

I know it is in the advertising... why are there ads that are blatantly false on the internet, on so called secure websites?
 
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