You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ok I don't want to sound gross or give your nightmares or anything, but just so you can understand...Juan_Man said:Just curious as to what your thoughts are?
I think that if the guy is at least 15, NEVER!
Le Parisien said:Ok I don't want to sound gross or give your nightmares or anything, but just so you can understand...
Just imagine yourself being drugged up and tied up by some 50 year old fugly granny. And she plays with a beer bottle in your a** and jerks you off even though you are not liking it at all.
Would you consider it rape?:crackup:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That phrase is HILARIOUS...but true.DJDamage said:So basically you can be drunk and pass out and still have an erection and some woman can bounce on your d1ck, but since you are the man and you are the penetrater your argument of being raped is usually tossed out the window in court. The arugment would probably be that its your fault "for not being responsible enough". Of coarse this argument would be valid if the reverse was female being raped by a male because she is usually the weaker one and she is the one being penetrated.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You seem to be pretty proud of what happened. A woman who's been raped would NEVER admit it in a Discussion Forum even when asked. This is the difference. Your body and your mind are not negatively affected at all by these experiences, are they? This is not something that will hurt for the rest of your life, it's something you will laugh about with your friends.The Truth said:I've had encounters with those kind of hen night slags who get in a group, get drunk and think they can go round groping men and making sleazy suggestions. I had a woman thrust a dildo in my mouth at club one night and I've been groped many times by these types. If the situation was reversed then I'd probably be facing a sentence for sexual assault now!
I dont know why you think I am proud. It was humiliating! So while I wasn't physically hurt, I felt degraded and undermined so my mind was affected. My point was that nobody, male nor female has the right to impose themselves on you this way.Adone said:You seem to be pretty proud of what happened. A woman who's been raped would NEVER admit it in a Discussion Forum even when asked. This is the difference. Your body and your mind are not negatively affected at all by these experiences, are they?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Last time I checked, you don't need the victim to have actually come to make a rape case, valid for both male and female victims.Juan_Man said:Anyone who has engaged in sexual activity would know how difficult it is to ejaculate if you don't find any pleasure in the encounter. If you release, are you really a victim?
Le Parisien said:Last time I checked, you don't need the victim to have actually come to make a rape case, valid for both male and female victims.
And most likely, when you get raped, you don't enjoy it and don't come, whether you are a guy or a girl.:nono:
I think it's quite clear on this topic: rape involves forceful coercion. Whether the victim has an orgasm, male or female, is totally irrelevent.Adone said:I think that's what he's saying, man. He's asking when you are raped against your will and for some reason you come (for example, if she's giving you a blow job and she's extremely good at it), could a court consider that "rape"?
Haha, not really. I was just thinking about the whole thing and wondered what others thought. But I must admit, these recent stories about hot female teachers-rapists makes me wish I can go back to junior high.Le Parisien said:I think it's quite clear on this topic: rape involves forceful coercion. Whether the victim has an orgasm, male or female, is totally irrelevent.
I think he genuinely has some rape fantasy or he's naively dreaming about being "raped" by some twenty something hot hot highschool teacher, like the recent Florida hot blond teacher who had sex with a 14-year old...Only it was statutory rape, not "real" rape, the young kid was completely consenting and he was more than enjoying the rides...
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.