I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ok I don't want to sound gross or give your nightmares or anything, but just so you can understand...Juan_Man said:Just curious as to what your thoughts are?
I think that if the guy is at least 15, NEVER!
Le Parisien said:Ok I don't want to sound gross or give your nightmares or anything, but just so you can understand...
Just imagine yourself being drugged up and tied up by some 50 year old fugly granny. And she plays with a beer bottle in your a** and jerks you off even though you are not liking it at all.
Would you consider it rape?:crackup:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That phrase is HILARIOUS...but true.DJDamage said:So basically you can be drunk and pass out and still have an erection and some woman can bounce on your d1ck, but since you are the man and you are the penetrater your argument of being raped is usually tossed out the window in court. The arugment would probably be that its your fault "for not being responsible enough". Of coarse this argument would be valid if the reverse was female being raped by a male because she is usually the weaker one and she is the one being penetrated.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You seem to be pretty proud of what happened. A woman who's been raped would NEVER admit it in a Discussion Forum even when asked. This is the difference. Your body and your mind are not negatively affected at all by these experiences, are they? This is not something that will hurt for the rest of your life, it's something you will laugh about with your friends.The Truth said:I've had encounters with those kind of hen night slags who get in a group, get drunk and think they can go round groping men and making sleazy suggestions. I had a woman thrust a dildo in my mouth at club one night and I've been groped many times by these types. If the situation was reversed then I'd probably be facing a sentence for sexual assault now!
I dont know why you think I am proud. It was humiliating! So while I wasn't physically hurt, I felt degraded and undermined so my mind was affected. My point was that nobody, male nor female has the right to impose themselves on you this way.Adone said:You seem to be pretty proud of what happened. A woman who's been raped would NEVER admit it in a Discussion Forum even when asked. This is the difference. Your body and your mind are not negatively affected at all by these experiences, are they?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Last time I checked, you don't need the victim to have actually come to make a rape case, valid for both male and female victims.Juan_Man said:Anyone who has engaged in sexual activity would know how difficult it is to ejaculate if you don't find any pleasure in the encounter. If you release, are you really a victim?
Le Parisien said:Last time I checked, you don't need the victim to have actually come to make a rape case, valid for both male and female victims.
And most likely, when you get raped, you don't enjoy it and don't come, whether you are a guy or a girl.:nono:
I think it's quite clear on this topic: rape involves forceful coercion. Whether the victim has an orgasm, male or female, is totally irrelevent.Adone said:I think that's what he's saying, man. He's asking when you are raped against your will and for some reason you come (for example, if she's giving you a blow job and she's extremely good at it), could a court consider that "rape"?
Haha, not really. I was just thinking about the whole thing and wondered what others thought. But I must admit, these recent stories about hot female teachers-rapists makes me wish I can go back to junior high.Le Parisien said:I think it's quite clear on this topic: rape involves forceful coercion. Whether the victim has an orgasm, male or female, is totally irrelevent.
I think he genuinely has some rape fantasy or he's naively dreaming about being "raped" by some twenty something hot hot highschool teacher, like the recent Florida hot blond teacher who had sex with a 14-year old...Only it was statutory rape, not "real" rape, the young kid was completely consenting and he was more than enjoying the rides...
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.