"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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is a daydate ever a good idea?

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I asked this girl if she wanted to do something tonight but she already had plans and suggested we meet up tomorrow during the afternoon since I'm flying out of town tomorrow night. Would this be a good idea or is the whole idea of getting together during the daytime just a bad idea in general?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've had some success on day dates. Actually, the last girl I was with I met online. We went out for coffee in the morning, then she invited me back to her apartment because she wanted to show me some ****tails she learned to make in bartending class (she's trying to become a bartender). The girl must have read Bang or something... Anyway, everything was done by 5 o clock and I still had the whole evening to myself. I try to make my first dates with girls from Match day dates and it works well. Plus, I feel girls are more peppy in the day. The warm sun is shining, they aren't tired from work, and there's a lot to do.

Come to think of it, I should probably take a bartending class...
 
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konmai

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i mostly do day dates now. gotta hit the sack early and wake up to study and work. going well for me.
 
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Day date.. Night date.. It doesn't matter. Same game whether it's lunch, dinner, early drinks or late drinks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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For a girl who you haven't met before, you should avoid dates during the day if you want to get balls deep.

Having said that, the girl I was with last week (she added me on FB), I went around to her place about 2pm and banged her brains out. Go figure!

But then again, I knew she was keen, otherwise wouldn't be inviting me around to her place.
 
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I think day dates are good. It gives you more time, if you need it.
 
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