I asked this girl if she wanted to do something tonight but she already had plans and suggested we meet up tomorrow during the afternoon since I'm flying out of town tomorrow night. Would this be a good idea or is the whole idea of getting together during the daytime just a bad idea in general?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
is a daydate ever a good idea?
- Thread starter duke104
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Equilibrium
Don Juan
I've had some success on day dates. Actually, the last girl I was with I met online. We went out for coffee in the morning, then she invited me back to her apartment because she wanted to show me some ****tails she learned to make in bartending class (she's trying to become a bartender). The girl must have read Bang or something... Anyway, everything was done by 5 o clock and I still had the whole evening to myself. I try to make my first dates with girls from Match day dates and it works well. Plus, I feel girls are more peppy in the day. The warm sun is shining, they aren't tired from work, and there's a lot to do.
Come to think of it, I should probably take a bartending class...
Come to think of it, I should probably take a bartending class...
Korrupt
Banned
Day date.. Night date.. It doesn't matter. Same game whether it's lunch, dinner, early drinks or late drinks.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
For a girl who you haven't met before, you should avoid dates during the day if you want to get balls deep.
Having said that, the girl I was with last week (she added me on FB), I went around to her place about 2pm and banged her brains out. Go figure!
But then again, I knew she was keen, otherwise wouldn't be inviting me around to her place.
Having said that, the girl I was with last week (she added me on FB), I went around to her place about 2pm and banged her brains out. Go figure!
But then again, I knew she was keen, otherwise wouldn't be inviting me around to her place.