I asked this girl if she wanted to do something tonight but she already had plans and suggested we meet up tomorrow during the afternoon since I'm flying out of town tomorrow night. Would this be a good idea or is the whole idea of getting together during the daytime just a bad idea in general?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
is a daydate ever a good idea?
- Thread starter duke104
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Equilibrium
Don Juan
I've had some success on day dates. Actually, the last girl I was with I met online. We went out for coffee in the morning, then she invited me back to her apartment because she wanted to show me some ****tails she learned to make in bartending class (she's trying to become a bartender). The girl must have read Bang or something... Anyway, everything was done by 5 o clock and I still had the whole evening to myself. I try to make my first dates with girls from Match day dates and it works well. Plus, I feel girls are more peppy in the day. The warm sun is shining, they aren't tired from work, and there's a lot to do.
Come to think of it, I should probably take a bartending class...
Come to think of it, I should probably take a bartending class...
Korrupt
Banned
Day date.. Night date.. It doesn't matter. Same game whether it's lunch, dinner, early drinks or late drinks.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
For a girl who you haven't met before, you should avoid dates during the day if you want to get balls deep.
Having said that, the girl I was with last week (she added me on FB), I went around to her place about 2pm and banged her brains out. Go figure!
But then again, I knew she was keen, otherwise wouldn't be inviting me around to her place.
Having said that, the girl I was with last week (she added me on FB), I went around to her place about 2pm and banged her brains out. Go figure!
But then again, I knew she was keen, otherwise wouldn't be inviting me around to her place.