"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is 5'8 considered short for a male?

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Most woman seem to think any guy under 5'10 these days are short.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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5'8 is that magic number just between short and average... **** it I say, I'm 5'7 but as long as you've got the inner game it shouldn't hold you back.. except for the few women who only, non exception, go after tall guys but forget about them. The biggest natural/DJ I've ever met was only 5'5, (I met him at a nationwide summer program last year.. he got laid on the second day there.. holy ****).
 

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I saw an ugly guy who was 5.5, skinny as hell, with a HB9. Didn't seem to bother him, that he was uglyl and short.
 

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Hope not, since I'm 5'7.
 

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Deadly_Assassin said:
I saw an ugly guy who was 5.5, skinny as hell, with a HB9. Didn't seem to bother him, that he was uglyl and short.
Thats the key thing there that everybody who has height, looks, money etc issues don't see.

If you have an issue with your height then you don't like yourself and if you don't like yourself then how can anybody else like you.

YOU HAVE TO LIKE YOURSELF FIRST!!!! The is rule no1 in getting people to like you.

The small skinny ugly guy and any men who can get hot looking girls all have 1 thing in common... they like themselves!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i would say that yeah, anything under 5'10'' is short

i cannot belive you americans still use the imperial system

why do you have to decode 2 numbers, when one will do

168cm
 

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warrior1 said:
Most woman seem to think any guy under 5'10 these days are short.
You can always respond to that with, "Good, I don't date any woman who weights more than ________.", and pick a number that is lower than her weight. :D

Women are never satisfied with a man's height, yet they aren't satisfied with their own weight either. Sarge on!
 

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5"8 in Asia is considered average, but in the West, it might be a bit short.
Most of the white and black guys I've seen all my life so far are really giants, even the girls, and I'm not kidding. I'm talking about guys going as tall as 6"2 and above, and the girls are like 5"7 - 6".
 

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I'm 5'6 and it doesn't bother me anymore.
I've always dated girls who were taller than me.
When a girl tell me I'm too short, I say something like :

"You know when we will be making love and having pleasure, my height will doesn't matter anymore ;) :D "

Gangster Of Love said:
You can always respond to that with, "Good, I don't date any woman who weights more than ________.", and pick a number that is lower than her weight.
Ahahahaha really good one ! :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm 5'8" and obsessed with height. Although most people that read my posts probably know that. I'm quite depressed because of it too.

Do women overlook height? probably, depending on the guy of course. Also most women are an inch or so shorter than me, so perhaps there are women out there who don't mind dating a guy who is their same height.
 

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lordson said:
i would say that yeah, anything under 5'10'' is short

I cannot believe you Americans still use the imperial system

why do you have to decode 2 numbers when one will do?

168cm
Lol, nice one.
 

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height isnt that important, get over it and start thinking about more important things. girls wont mind, unless ur a total extreme, like less than 5'4
 

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Ask yourself this question: can you improve upon this aspect of who you are?

If you can't (height, pen1s size, etc), there's nothing to worry about because there's nothing to do about it.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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People get caught up in it because its an easy excuse for being bad with women. They call themselves "short" and then bury their head in the sand because its easier than facing your problems and overcoming them. Undescended testicles might be the cause of this irrational woman-like behavior. It's like pulling a blanket over your head cause you're afraid of the dark.

The average male American mens height is 177 cm, which is 69.7 inches, which is approximately 5 foot - 10 inches tall. (for white males*).
I'm 5'9, most of my boys are 6'1-6'3, I even have a kid who's 6'8 in my crew. Guess who gets the most IOIs?

Believe it or not, the average guy grows in height until he's around 23 years old. You don't just stop growing right after puberty.
 

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YOU HAVE TO LIKE YOURSELF FIRST!!!! The is rule no1 in getting people to like you.
Bulls eye!
 

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haha that youtube video was pretty funny, and i think shortness doesn't really matter unless you let it get to you.

or if you're danny devito.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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