"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is 17 too young?

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A good friend once told me if there's grass on the field play ball.

Of course, if there's not, play in the mud!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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On a more serious note. A 22 year old man dating a 17 yo girl is going to be a relationship strictly based on sex. So think about what it is you're intentions are and act accordingly.
 

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If it wasnt for the law, i have no problem with it at all. His only real problem is that its going to be illegal in most states. Granted, he could just put up the state laws (which are often online) and just see for himself if its illegal in his state.

Some states have "outs" if the age spread is under a certain limit. But its usually less than 5 years.

jmm, they all have grass on the field at 17, unless there's an uncommon hormone problem.
 

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22 / 2 = 11

11 + 7 = 18

18 > 17

17 = too young

Take your age, divide by two, and add seven. That's the generally accepted dating line.

For me, that's 18 / 2 = 9, 9 + 7 = 16yrs old
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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michaelhctam said:
well if you are planning to sleep with this girl (Which I am sure you are) make sure that its legal in your country (In the UK its 16, in the USA 18, Russia 10....etc)



Go for it :up:


N Russia you just have to be 10??? that's F^ckin Nasty...Imagine a old man having sex with a 5th grader...and not getting in trouble for it...ewww:moon:
 

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Extreme Bumming said:
My friend is perverted in the way he goes for little girls. I was in a jacuzzi today with these 2 15 year old girls. I'm 19, so I was kinda like takin it easy or whatever. But my friend Cris, who brought me there, he was kinda...really into them.
I'm 19, and if those girls were hot in that jacuzzi then I would go for it man
 

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Extreme Bumming said:
My friend is perverted in the way he goes for little girls. I was in a jacuzzi today with these 2 15 year old girls. I'm 19, so I was kinda like takin it easy or whatever. But my friend Cris, who brought me there, he was kinda...really into them.
I'm 19, and if those girls were hot in that jacuzzi then I would go for it man
 
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