"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is 17 too young?

jmm854

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A good friend once told me if there's grass on the field play ball.

Of course, if there's not, play in the mud!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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On a more serious note. A 22 year old man dating a 17 yo girl is going to be a relationship strictly based on sex. So think about what it is you're intentions are and act accordingly.
 

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If it wasnt for the law, i have no problem with it at all. His only real problem is that its going to be illegal in most states. Granted, he could just put up the state laws (which are often online) and just see for himself if its illegal in his state.

Some states have "outs" if the age spread is under a certain limit. But its usually less than 5 years.

jmm, they all have grass on the field at 17, unless there's an uncommon hormone problem.
 

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22 / 2 = 11

11 + 7 = 18

18 > 17

17 = too young

Take your age, divide by two, and add seven. That's the generally accepted dating line.

For me, that's 18 / 2 = 9, 9 + 7 = 16yrs old
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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michaelhctam said:
well if you are planning to sleep with this girl (Which I am sure you are) make sure that its legal in your country (In the UK its 16, in the USA 18, Russia 10....etc)



Go for it :up:


N Russia you just have to be 10??? that's F^ckin Nasty...Imagine a old man having sex with a 5th grader...and not getting in trouble for it...ewww:moon:
 

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Extreme Bumming said:
My friend is perverted in the way he goes for little girls. I was in a jacuzzi today with these 2 15 year old girls. I'm 19, so I was kinda like takin it easy or whatever. But my friend Cris, who brought me there, he was kinda...really into them.
I'm 19, and if those girls were hot in that jacuzzi then I would go for it man
 

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Extreme Bumming said:
My friend is perverted in the way he goes for little girls. I was in a jacuzzi today with these 2 15 year old girls. I'm 19, so I was kinda like takin it easy or whatever. But my friend Cris, who brought me there, he was kinda...really into them.
I'm 19, and if those girls were hot in that jacuzzi then I would go for it man
 
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