"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am beginning to think i may have an iron deficiently. What supplements if any do you guys recommend, and how much should i take daily?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Since you're a guy, don't take iron supplements. Eat more red meat and green vegetables.
 

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yea, i looked at my whey mixture, im actually getting 94% iron intake. But i think now the problem was a lack of lysine. I don't think im getting enough.
 

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What's wrong with taking Iron supplements if you're Iron deficient?
And what does it have to do with being a guy?
Enlighten me, please.
 

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You have no way to excrete iron, once you take it, it's in you. Too much can cause multiple complications that put simply make you sick. I believe simon is alluding to menstruation which excretes about 0.5 mg/mL iron for females however we don't have such an option and iron can still be dangerous for them. Get what you need from red meat and greens as he said.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thanks,HBK. Forgot about Aunt Whatshernameorother. Glad we don't have to live with her.

lolz
Anyway,I figure one would be going back to the doc to get the bloodwork checked, and stop supplementing once the desired counts are there.
Meat and greens ftw. I likes me spinach.
 

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I had a severe iron deficiency as a kid, and my parents made me eat a lot of liver. I guess it worked, yeah?
 

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Yeah, but it turned you into a fvckin' Monster Squid!!!!

Watch out! Flee! Run away!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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:eek: Monster Squid?? Where???
OMG! Oh noes!!!
 

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stop drinking sodas and tea if you think you have low iron. it sucks the iron right outta ya.
 

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It's SQUAD. Not squid.

Oh, and to the OP. If you drink distilled water, stop.
 

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Dude. Don't get defensive. It's just a joke FFS.
 

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High blood iron may also be a risk factor for CHD, which is why a lot of men should give blood as frequently as possible. Frequent exercise is also associated with a decrease in blood iron.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WHY do you think you have deficiencies? I doubt you're deficient in lysine or iron.
 

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well I've been really getting back into training/working out this summer..its been 3 months now of heavy lifting. I also noticed this summer, right as i coming off a cold (which i did a high dosage of vitamin C to counteract, 1000mg) I noticed i had developed alopecia barbae, which is when your autoimmune system thinks hair folices are enemies, and destroys them; this has happened to a spot in my beard. I don't want it to spread.
I've done some research, and found out that the a cause of hairloss is a lack of certain essential vitamins and minerals: iron, lysine, B-1, and C. Now, my multivitamin, and C supplements take of the vitamin C, and also give me 90% daily value for my iron. B-1 is also included in the multivitamin. However I noticed, im not getting lysine from anywhere. This leads me to believe that a deficiency in this, may have triggered the auto immune system.
 

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Lysine is an amino acid that's in all meats. Do you eat any meat? Then you get enough. Heck you said you take whey; in my whey it's the 4th most abundant amino acid in the mix according to the bag.

If you go give blood they'll test it for appropriate iron levels.
 

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yea, im getting my blood looked at this thursday.. I'd **** myself if i let some stupid ass shiet take my gorgeous head of hair!!!!!!
 

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When i have to give blood, and for iron they tell me to eat raisins.. I dont think it does that much, like a cap would give you, but if you try to add them to your diet, it may help increase your iron levels.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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