“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Look, there are a fair number of very good women members of SS. But just by my having typed "very good women members" it's an automatic qualifier in that I'm defining what a "good" female member ought to be by saying so. The membership of SS is overwhelmingly male, that's no secret, but it sets up an environment that is homogenus in it's view points. So any woman diagreeing with the views expressed does so with this environment setting the tone.

PENKITTEN, WATERTIGER, BLACK WIDOW, and a few notable others contribute to the discourse and make very valid, well considered points more often than not. My problem with IQQI and WYLDFIRE (and really only towards the time of her banning) is that they use the environment of SS as a backing for their points. In otherwords, if you disagree with the opinions expressed the fault lies with you not getting it BECAUSE you use SS as your sounding board. You're all male, you all b!tch and complain here, and because she (alledgedly) is a woman you wont take her opinoins seriously because you're jaded. She's never wrong because anything, no matter how well reasoned to the contrary, can always be turned into a poisoned well argument. You guys can't take it because you all hate women, that's the binary of it.

This is why I don't take IQQI seriously. Just like WYLDFIRE, SoSuave is her convenient catharsis. PENKITTEN, WATER TIGER, BLACK WIDOW, all post here regularly and semi-regularly and none of them inspire anything but respect. Does that make them all the female Uncle Toms of this forum? IQQI would have you believe so. Agree with her and she's your best friend, disagree and it's all because you spend too much time here at SS contemplating things.
 

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Outstanding post Rollo.

You summed it all up better than I can.

Iqqi has said some things to me, backbreaker, Penkitten, Str8up and others here that have absolutely been ban worthy but I haven't called for banning her and I think those others haven't called for banning her because occassionally...just occasionally she does make a few good points here and there and often comes off as amusingly clownish in her antics trying to rile the forum up at times.

Kind of a frustrated slightly amusing clown feminist mascot for the forum who is occasionally a source of good information.
 

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I don't think anything IQQI has posted has been particularly ban worthy, but I can't take her seriously even when she posts something worth debating, because it always becomes a staw man or poisoned well argument by her 2nd or 3rd response. The default will always be that just by virtue of being a regular, male SS member your assessment of her POV can't be objective.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Interesting since you happen to share the same IP number as her.
Even more interesting as he is perhaps the ONLY "m"an I have heard write in a message board the following:

"the last thing they want to do is AGREE with a women. even when her post at the time is insightful, thought provoking, eye opening, or sometimes enjoyably debatable."
A clear indication that he is either gay...or a woman.
 

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Latinoman said:
Even more interesting as he is perhaps the ONLY "m"an I have heard write in a message board the following:



A clear indication that he is either gay...or a woman.
thanks for the slap on the azz...but I am niether gay or a women.

I was simply trying to IMO explain why i thought some ppl didnt like IQQI's POV.

Now..it may be true that some "rational" posters have valid reasons to dislike her.

but read some of her threads and you will find newbies and regulars simply disagree with her because of her gender.

honestly i could care less either way, but i figured i would share my opinion.

I think you calling me gay or a women is no different than what these guys are saying the issue is with Iqqi.

step out the box my friend
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Oh man, 'Cisco you killed it!

Yikes and gadzookes.
Whew... I was worried that it was way too far overhead for anyone to catch. Thanks buddy! :up:
 

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So do me and Daven Juan have to post at exactly the same time to prove that we are not the same people? This is going to be FUN. Hahhaha.

Remember when everyone thought Janet and Michael Jackson were the same person?

I guess they don't buy our long drawn out stories, yours about the Boss and the Girl Friend, and mine about the Ugly Friend I slept with and the Romantic Rivalry crap.

HAAHHAHHAA, I KNEW that "we have it on our good authority" was a LOAD of CRAP.
 

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Really? All you have to do is open TWO windows and sign in using both IDs (one per window). Then type in World two posts. Then copy - paste each posts in their respective Reply box.

And then reply within 60 seconds of each ID.
 

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Latinoman said:
Really? All you have to do is open TWO windows and sign in using both IDs (one per window). Then type in World two posts. Then copy - paste each posts in their respective Reply box.

And then reply within 60 seconds of each ID.

:crazy: Some of you have some REAL paranoid tendencies and thoughts.

AND I will not be posting a pic, thanks. Post yours!
 

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iqqi said:
I think that means we are the same person! :p
If it was a perfect match; meaning not just the first two series of 3 numbers, then RT should be your best friend. He should already have a PM in his box thanking him that you can still post, if that were the case.

Now, the first two series of numbers isn't a match; it only proves without question that you have the same internet service provider.
 

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You guys don't take into account that some people use public internet services. Maybe me and DJ went to the same school. For the longest time, I was using a public IT service in a public place.


DAMMIT now DJ might figure out who I am.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I believe you're not DavenJuan. You don't strike me as being cautious enough to even remember to not start sentences with caps when posting as Daven. Also, I doubt you could even fake posts as emotionally absent as Daven's are with me just looking at his for a couple of minutes.

For the record, I've actually changed my mind and decide you really are female. I've seen that (female) "crazy" way too many times to not recognize it when I see it.

So what do you have against iVillage?
 

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azanon said:
I believe you're not DavenJuan. You don't strike me as being cautious enough to even remember to not start sentences with caps when posting as Daven. Also, I doubt you could even fake posts as emotionally absent as Daven's are with me just looking at his for a couple of minutes.

For the record, I've actually changed my mind and decide you really are female. I've seen that (female) "crazy" way too many times to not recognize it when I see it.

So what do you have against iVillage?
Geeze...

why the attacks on me all of a sudden?

my posts are emotiionally absent?


listen, i wasnt coming to iqqis defense, nor am i going to justify my threads. all i was saying , regardless if some will admit this or not...

there are posters who dislike her and other female posters simply because of gender alone, and not substance.
 

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DavenJuan said:
there are posters who dislike her and other female posters simply because of gender alone, and not substance.
Exactly AND unless this is a gay community I don't see what your problem is with a little female company, fellas.
 

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How funny would it have been if my user IP was the same as Karma's or Keto's?

Muahhahahahahahaa!!!! THAT would have been funny.

I feel sorry for DJ, now he is going to get hate mail like me and Fingz.
 
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