You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What did you pay for it and how much is your monthly bill including the internet plan?S.Y.L said:I have an iPhone 3G, girls see me with it and they approach me, and ask "omg is that the new iPhone?", think its awesome, play around on it, then add their number to my contacts.
Theres status with it, its awesome. It is by far the best phone ive ever used too, I jail broke it, and it does everything you could ever think of. 3G is fast too, and Its awesome to have the internet on the go.
I second this. The touch pro is going to be amazing.ready123 said:you guys should check out the HTC Touch Pro. check out this review
cooler looking touch interface than the iPhone (looks like a rolodex), plus a slide out keypad because it's ridiculous trying to text on the iPhone anyway. It's also made by HTC, who designed the G1, the Tilt, AND the Xperia
it's on Sprint right now and it's coming out on ATT next week renamed as the Fuze
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Too bad I can't afford it at the moment - I only have an iPod Touch.S.Y.L said:I have an iPhone 3G, girls see me with it and they approach me, and ask "omg is that the new iPhone?", think its awesome, play around on it, then add their number to my contacts.
Theres status with it, its awesome. It is by far the best phone ive ever used too, I jail broke it, and it does everything you could ever think of. 3G is fast too, and Its awesome to have the internet on the go.
actually it's Mac OS9...there's no way a phone can run mac os XIt's-Me said:The iPhone runs a slimmed down version of Mac OS X too and it's frequently being updated.
I've used dozens (60+) of HTC phones and unfortunately the one thing they all had in common was a mediocre cell radio. If you live and stay in a strictly urban area then you're OK but they don't grab signal as well as the Motorolas and Samsungs.ready123 said:you guys should check out the HTC Touch Pro.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Also there is an actual community of people WRITING apps along with a well established delivery channel, not just some hypothetical ability to do so.backbreaker said:the iphone by a country mile.
I'm a tech by trade, and the iphone is on a different level. it's pretty easy to program different apps for the iphone and actually use them. that alone puts the iphone in a different class to me.
PRMoon said:O just got a Samsung Omnia! It's the best cell phone I've ever owned. Windows mobile 6.2 interfaces with my laptops at work and at home with no issues. Although I miss out on things like identifying and purchasing music ala iphone, I have to say that for business applications, this phone is definitely the crowned prince.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.