"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Invites but no follow up?

dev_pf6

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This girl that i know has invited me to go several places with her and sometimes places with her friends (movies, clubbing, out to eat) however after that first invitation often times not another word is mentioned about it.

am I supposed to take this as...
-she is not making a serious invitation
-she is waiting for me to act and try to make me show my interest/chase her
-she is simply not interested
-other?

I never bring it up myself because I dont want to come off as too needy...what should my next step be?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Aktat

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or try the opposite. When you are going out, call her and ask her come along. In that way you are in charge of the situation, and if she won´t join or are making up excuses, then she might not be that serious.
good luck.
 
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