"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Invites but no follow up?

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dev_pf6

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This girl that i know has invited me to go several places with her and sometimes places with her friends (movies, clubbing, out to eat) however after that first invitation often times not another word is mentioned about it.

am I supposed to take this as...
-she is not making a serious invitation
-she is waiting for me to act and try to make me show my interest/chase her
-she is simply not interested
-other?

I never bring it up myself because I dont want to come off as too needy...what should my next step be?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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or try the opposite. When you are going out, call her and ask her come along. In that way you are in charge of the situation, and if she won´t join or are making up excuses, then she might not be that serious.
good luck.
 
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