"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Invites but no follow up?

dev_pf6

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This girl that i know has invited me to go several places with her and sometimes places with her friends (movies, clubbing, out to eat) however after that first invitation often times not another word is mentioned about it.

am I supposed to take this as...
-she is not making a serious invitation
-she is waiting for me to act and try to make me show my interest/chase her
-she is simply not interested
-other?

I never bring it up myself because I dont want to come off as too needy...what should my next step be?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Aktat

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or try the opposite. When you are going out, call her and ask her come along. In that way you are in charge of the situation, and if she won´t join or are making up excuses, then she might not be that serious.
good luck.
 
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