OnTheWayUp
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Hey all,
I was planning on hooking up with my semi-regular FWB this evening, and sent her a text suggesting we meet at mine. It's her 21st birthday today and I know she's not planning on celebrating in a big way for a while, so tbh I thought it would be a good opportunity to take her v-card. She's counter-offered by inviting me to a casual birthday thing in her flat instead. I really don't know whether I should accept or not.
For going:
-I like this girl, it would be fun and a good way to socialise and meet new people.
-Comes across as a bit of a d1ck move to imply I'm free this evening and then not show up.
-The girl likes me and would be pretty pissed if I don't show up. I'm sure she expects me to come.
-If I can isolate my girl at the end, I have a very high chance of taking her v-card as it's her 21st birthday.
Against going:
-I want to get laid, not make polite conversation with randomers for a couple of hours.
-She's just sent me an invite to the event for her bday on FB- I literally know no-one else in her social circle apart from her. It's social suicide going to a house party where you don't know anyone.
-I could just be like "I fancied doing something a bit more chilled this evening, see you round." This gets round the awkwardness of suggesting we meet and then not showing up at her party.
-I am not pursuing a relationship with this girl. I want to be the guy she gets physical with rather than a friend she hangs out with and introduces to other friends.
-I will not be able to hit on any of her friends or get their numbers for obvious reasons.
-This feels like an audition for her friends.
-Her flat might be quite messy at the end of the night, she will probably have to tidy up. This is not conducive to sexytimes.
-I have other options I can invite out for a drink if need be.
Need to make a decision in the next 4 hours, all advice appreciated.
I was planning on hooking up with my semi-regular FWB this evening, and sent her a text suggesting we meet at mine. It's her 21st birthday today and I know she's not planning on celebrating in a big way for a while, so tbh I thought it would be a good opportunity to take her v-card. She's counter-offered by inviting me to a casual birthday thing in her flat instead. I really don't know whether I should accept or not.
For going:
-I like this girl, it would be fun and a good way to socialise and meet new people.
-Comes across as a bit of a d1ck move to imply I'm free this evening and then not show up.
-The girl likes me and would be pretty pissed if I don't show up. I'm sure she expects me to come.
-If I can isolate my girl at the end, I have a very high chance of taking her v-card as it's her 21st birthday.
Against going:
-I want to get laid, not make polite conversation with randomers for a couple of hours.
-She's just sent me an invite to the event for her bday on FB- I literally know no-one else in her social circle apart from her. It's social suicide going to a house party where you don't know anyone.
-I could just be like "I fancied doing something a bit more chilled this evening, see you round." This gets round the awkwardness of suggesting we meet and then not showing up at her party.
-I am not pursuing a relationship with this girl. I want to be the guy she gets physical with rather than a friend she hangs out with and introduces to other friends.
-I will not be able to hit on any of her friends or get their numbers for obvious reasons.
-This feels like an audition for her friends.
-Her flat might be quite messy at the end of the night, she will probably have to tidy up. This is not conducive to sexytimes.
-I have other options I can invite out for a drink if need be.
Need to make a decision in the next 4 hours, all advice appreciated.