I'm acting in a movie soon. After one of my rehearsals, my co-star invited me to her place to "go over lines". Is she trying to make a move on me? I can't tell. It will be just me and her at her place tomorrow night and I want to make a move.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Invite to her place?
- Thread starter Vikman
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Exactly.horaholic said:
Escalate slowly. If she seems receptive, YOU make the move.
Taking control of these situations for yourself does one of two things:
1) It stops you from wondering and asking so many questions, therefore making you more confident, therefore getting you better results.
2) Girls like it when the man is a man and makes a move.
But, be careful. Last thing you want is to be blown out and to then have to work with this girl. So go forward, cautiously but confidently.
Just remember the simple fact of life that a woman will not invite a man into her place to be alone with him/go into a man's place to be alone with him without knowing what consequences might arise from it.
It doesn't matter what the situation is. When a woman invites you to her place to be alone with her that shows that she has a certain level of comfort around you already. It also shows that she is not appalled by the sight of you.
Trust me on this. If you weighed 300 pounds and had 2 missing front teeth you would not be getting invited over to her place to be alone with her.
In this type of situations the main thing is: Kino, Kino, Kino!
Lots of playful kino. The combination of being alone with you with no other distractions and people around, combined with all your playful touching will do wonders.
The key is to start the moment you get to her place. You don't want to start touching her an hour after being in her place. The moment she opens the door you need to touch her.
It doesn't matter what the situation is. When a woman invites you to her place to be alone with her that shows that she has a certain level of comfort around you already. It also shows that she is not appalled by the sight of you.
Trust me on this. If you weighed 300 pounds and had 2 missing front teeth you would not be getting invited over to her place to be alone with her.
In this type of situations the main thing is: Kino, Kino, Kino!
Lots of playful kino. The combination of being alone with you with no other distractions and people around, combined with all your playful touching will do wonders.
The key is to start the moment you get to her place. You don't want to start touching her an hour after being in her place. The moment she opens the door you need to touch her.