I'm acting in a movie soon. After one of my rehearsals, my co-star invited me to her place to "go over lines". Is she trying to make a move on me? I can't tell. It will be just me and her at her place tomorrow night and I want to make a move.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Invite to her place?
- Thread starter Vikman
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Exactly.horaholic said:
Escalate slowly. If she seems receptive, YOU make the move.
Taking control of these situations for yourself does one of two things:
1) It stops you from wondering and asking so many questions, therefore making you more confident, therefore getting you better results.
2) Girls like it when the man is a man and makes a move.
But, be careful. Last thing you want is to be blown out and to then have to work with this girl. So go forward, cautiously but confidently.
Just remember the simple fact of life that a woman will not invite a man into her place to be alone with him/go into a man's place to be alone with him without knowing what consequences might arise from it.
It doesn't matter what the situation is. When a woman invites you to her place to be alone with her that shows that she has a certain level of comfort around you already. It also shows that she is not appalled by the sight of you.
Trust me on this. If you weighed 300 pounds and had 2 missing front teeth you would not be getting invited over to her place to be alone with her.
In this type of situations the main thing is: Kino, Kino, Kino!
Lots of playful kino. The combination of being alone with you with no other distractions and people around, combined with all your playful touching will do wonders.
The key is to start the moment you get to her place. You don't want to start touching her an hour after being in her place. The moment she opens the door you need to touch her.
It doesn't matter what the situation is. When a woman invites you to her place to be alone with her that shows that she has a certain level of comfort around you already. It also shows that she is not appalled by the sight of you.
Trust me on this. If you weighed 300 pounds and had 2 missing front teeth you would not be getting invited over to her place to be alone with her.
In this type of situations the main thing is: Kino, Kino, Kino!
Lots of playful kino. The combination of being alone with you with no other distractions and people around, combined with all your playful touching will do wonders.
The key is to start the moment you get to her place. You don't want to start touching her an hour after being in her place. The moment she opens the door you need to touch her.