"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Invitation to go out with girl including boyfriend

radix

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The other day I ran into a fun goth-style girl while waiting for a rainstorm to end after visiting the supermarket, I opened her and we chatted for a while. It turned out we had quite a bit in common and ended up swapping numbers saying we'd go to a concert together sometime. Through SMS I suggest going to some concert but she's busy the night of the concert so I don't contact her for a while. Two weeks later I suggest to go out somewhere to get a drink later this week, giving my email address since convo is easier that way. She responds enthousiastically by email and within 5 minutes or so but saying she's too busy this week, but I should come to a concert she's going to next week. I quote: "I'm going there with my boyfriend and another friend but you can come too".

So what would you guys do? I've never gamed a chick with her boyfriend present. I think I'll go anyway just for the fun of it, any hints about what to do? I know that's a vague question but I'm interested in how you'd handle the situation.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Double

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.....but you can come too".
wooohoooo u lucky guy are allowed to come! sorry but i would have more self respect than that.
 

radix

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Yeah it feels a bit like that Double. But I've got a working solution figured out: I'll invite some friends as well including some hot girls, should be even more fun that way :)
 
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